Before i filed for a divorce, my wife would not even touch or have sex with me, now that she has moved out, she wants or is willing to have sex with me. She doesn't care if I say she is just a hole to me now. She is willing to come over to my house and let me just do anything i want. Is she trying to use sex to gain something, she is asking for money now, and i have helped her, now she wants to have sex, should I have sex with her?
What do you think she is up to? She tells me there is no preussure now. I am confused, she didn't want me when we were together and now she does.
2006-08-05 22:47:21 · 7 answers · asked by petey43 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just to add a alitte more to it she said we could be friends and lovers, that we were no good being married, this all just sounds wrong to me.
2006-08-05 23:25:23 · update #1
Tell her NO sex!!! U ARE NOT PUTTIN' OUT MY FRIEND!!!!
She just goes over there to squeeze come cash outta you and then wham bam....that's BS on her part. If you want to pay someone for sex get yourself a female escort or something. You are getting divorced and once you have made it to that point leave it there. Obviously circumstances have led you to this point and you shouldn't let her play headgames. Stay away from the evil succubus!!! LOL
2006-08-05 23:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Depending on where you filed for divorce, it can impact your ability to finish the process. Some states in the US actually require you to have no intimate contact for 6-12 months before your divorce can be finalized....every time you play hid Johnny Jr. the clock gets reset.
You need to cover your bases and NOT do this. You're either being seriously manipulated or she's not mentally / emotionally healthy.
2006-08-06 01:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You file for divorce and you wife now comes over and has sex with you.
What Gives? You divorce her and now you let her come over and your having sex with her.
Your asking us about her?. Should be asking yourself why did I divorce her.
If you want a divorce the stop the B.S. and move on. Your the one letting her come over to your place.
2006-08-05 23:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the challenge!! And no you shouldn't !! She has issues and you are divorcing her for a reason right.? Well do you want a bigger issue? Do you want her to hold that over your head? Women are weird and vindictive, I know I am one. Don't give her the false hope that is no longer there. Tell her she needs to move on.
2006-08-05 23:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kristi in Nevada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, bang the hell out of her. Then tell her your broke and have no cash for her, I bet that will put an end to it. Woman play games with sex, she does expect something from you for it. She sounds like a prostitute to me.
2006-08-06 00:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by paulsexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is up to something. Just don't get her pregnant.
2006-08-06 00:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
knock the bottom out of it
2006-08-05 22:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by nomad_of_gor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋