2006-08-05 22:24:01 · 19 answers · asked by Jena B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
because it is easier to stay the way you are and make excuses then to make the changes in your life. You are the one in control of your life. If there is something that you don't like then find out what it is and make the necessary changes so you will be happy with your life. There is nobody going to do it for you, there are many who could and would help but you are the one that has to make the changes.
2006-08-05 22:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to broaden your interests, and to connect with other people.
Use your computer.
The internet is a good starting point, with millions of sites.
Just exrercise caution.
You need wider interests, as well as connecting with other people.
Tap subjects that you are interested in into Google search, and see what it throws up.
Treat it as an adventure.
I am never lonely or unhappy, thankfully.
There is always so much to do, and never enough hours in the day to do it all.
I wish you luck, but your problem is not as difficult as it sounds, and there is most likely an element of boredom.
Ever thought of voluntary work, such as doing a few hours in a charity shop?
Think of all the people you could meet, all the friends you could make, and how much better off the charity would be for having you on board.
2006-08-06 05:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by emeraldisle2222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are the same, as social creatures in order to be happy we need friends,. Some more than others. Go out, meet people, join a hobby group. Find people that are into the same thing as you.
Talk to people, your opinion cunts as much as theirs!
It's hard though, to get friends you have to be happy, to be happy you need friends. Just get one to start with, work from there.
Find someone off this site and start chatting, try myspace but be careful and remember the real world is better than the virtual one
try to have fun
2006-08-06 05:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It knows the solitude and a close state, not need to have someone or to be with some pople to be happy. You has that to love yourselves, and when this happen, so you go to leave of if feeling alone!
2006-08-06 06:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by talyta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well may b the prob is no one but u, dear just change ur attitude and look at the brighter world, u will find more people to help and by u , than u can ever imagine. well i can say that coz i myself was in that situation. take care dear, and mind to b happy?
2006-08-06 05:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by younger dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club Jena I feel the same way, but I do feel things have a way of working themselves out.
2006-08-06 05:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it might be the chase that makes us happy. You have to have goals and dreams to keep you going. Hope is what pushes you.
2006-08-06 05:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by Alone again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one likes miserable F******S, cheer up or accept that you are just a sad sod and will never have friends. Alternatively you could try Prozac.
2006-08-06 05:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jena,
Come on...Do you really think you'll find the answer here?
We can talk, but we won't likely solve all problems. Let's.
2006-08-06 05:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by CB S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u r here and not out meeting ppl. I knw how it feels, good luck
2006-08-06 08:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by bullatpool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋