2006-08-05 22:18:52 · 11 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Idiots, yes it is true, think about it, if you had an affair and didn't say anything then your marriage would go on fine. But if you told your spouse you had an affair, your marriage is ruined. Think about it. Morons.
2006-08-05 22:38:28 · update #1
No. Lies make headache. Go straight and tell the truth.
2006-08-05 22:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Titan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just got through having a marital affair online...my husband was neglecting everyway possible...emotionally, sexually, attention wise, you name it. He never complimented me. No kind gestures to showed me he loved me after five kids and 9 years of marriage. So I started chatting online to someone who I had alot in common with. A few months later I started calling him and it turned into an affair - phone sex, lingerie in the mail, the whole deal you get it...anyway once the affair was over I felt like crap and I had to tell him. I tend to become guilt ridden especially now that this guy who made me feel loved and adored was no longer in my life. So I told him and yes he was very hurt and upset with me but now he is being more attentive to me because it was a wakeup call for him (I am hoping it will last). I have been spicing things up with naughty lingerie and sex toys and hoping that things will be better than they ever were because of the affair. So maybe our marriage will be successful because I didn't lie....
2006-08-06 06:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lies. Wrong. Not saying everything or holding back from saying things makes a great marriage.
Everyone lies at times to protect the others feelings. Most people don't want to here the truth so we sugar coat. Is that really a Lie Yes it is.
2006-08-06 05:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is true, why can't men turn down having an affair? Then everything would be fine in the marriage.
2006-08-06 07:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much of a good thing is bad, so I'd suggest liberal sprinklings of truth, and lies.
But basically a good marriage would be based on having a great memory.
You have to remember the lies, no?
2006-08-07 09:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by OraclewannaB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No relation, most of all marriage, can last if based on lies. It's honesty and openness that makes a relationship work. Lies can only destroy a marriage let alone make it work!
2006-08-06 05:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,my 17 year marriage was based a huge lie that had i known i would have supported my husband as i loved him very much but because he wasn't honest it tore him apart and he became violent and that's what broke us up.we are who we are and if we love someone it should be an unconditional love based on mutual trust,affection and honesty.everyone makes mistakes,we're only human.when my husbands secret finally came out it was something we could have worked out and still been friend.he was gay and forced into a marriage by his family to prove he was 'normal.'
2006-08-06 05:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by bubblesl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,its not true.every relationship has an understanding.and it should be based on truth and honest disclosures.both the partners have to understand maturely the various issues involved in married life.lies wd lead nowhere.and truths should be respected from both sides.one should not rely upon lies.its consequence is just separation and divorce.
2006-08-06 05:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
False.
Most successful marriages are based on mutual attraction and trust.
2006-08-06 05:27:20 · answer #9 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course notttttttttttt......
sometimes lies can heal problems for some time, but they never last for ever... they'll very soon get uncovered and they truth comes to the front. Then the problems will grow bigger and biggerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
2006-08-06 05:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by o.s. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋