i'm a seminarian and i have this insane feeling inside me feeling of being disturb whenever i saw my crush a nun! can make me feel alrigth? can you be my girlfriend?
2006-08-05 22:09:08 · 9 answers · asked by awayne 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Given your language skills, I doubt you are a seminarian.
However, it is not unheard of for seminarians to have feelings for women.
My great-uncle was a priest until he married my aunt. The Church was not amused.
If you are not a seminarian, it is also not uncommon to have a crush on a nun, particularly among immature people who seek out the unattainable. The whole point of a crush is "anticipatory coping". This is a situation where someone tries to develop their personality on how they would treat someone if they obtained them. Crush is unlikely to actually come to a positive resolution.
In the old days. it was common for young catholic girls to have crushes on their priests, because the young girls were unready for a real relationship.
These type crushes are avoidance techniques used by people to avoid real relationships.
Address your concerns with the Bishop and the Mother Superior.
2006-08-05 22:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
it really is particularly accepted to get crushes on human beings highly in the adventure that they are unobtainable see you later because it would not develop into an obsession. i do not comprehend how previous you're yet i could recommend that you search for help and suggestion from those about you,there should be counselors who can help.crushes generally bypass.attempt centred on your artwork and get a existence it truly is set incredibly.
2016-11-23 12:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The point of going to seminary school is fr you to understand yoru heart and pray and ask yourslef if it is the right descisison, i know a lot of seminarians who used to go to collage with me and fell in love with girls and got married follow your heart and pray to God to give u wisdom.
2006-08-05 22:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not the person to comment on your first question. But to have a crush on anybody be it a nun is natural. But, you get a training in seminaries I believe to curb your natural insticts. If you cannot then please do come out of it.
2006-08-09 21:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by rajiv s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you have realised that it is not your calling, why dont you leave the seminary and start on a good family life somewhere else, when you still have years on your side, instead of having regrets all your life.
2006-08-05 23:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by Abhishek Joshi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you like nasty habits.
Get yourself a big ruler and a praetor and confess your sins my son.
Now scourge yourself and go to bed.
Bad boy.
2006-08-06 00:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spellcheck is a wonderful tool,use it,moron.
2006-08-05 22:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by timgsweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay get off of it, get out of it.
I think that's a serious religious offense.
...I think?
2006-08-05 22:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by The Guide Giver of the West 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! BECAUSE THAT'S BAD!!!!!!!
2006-08-05 22:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by kimberly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋