I went to a party with a good friend of mine. I consider him my best friend, we can talk about anything. We been good friends for the past 5 years. After the party he was going to cruise over to my house but I told him that I was going to In N Out so he ended up crusing there too see we can chill and talk. He wasnt going to get anything but after I ordered, I sat outside to talk to him while waiting for my order. I told him I'm going to go in to check up on my order. I check up on my order and then I walk outside and he dissapears. I see him driving off. Doesnt call me to tell me or anything. So I ended getting my food and eating by myself at midnight. I go home and deleted him from my Myspace friends list. I'm going to ignore his phone calls. He will eventually find out ini a couple days what I did. Was what I did wrong or what he did wrong? I wont cut him off, but want him to know I dont mind cutting shady friends now because I just graduated college and I dont expect this.
2006-08-05 21:13:06 · 16 answers · asked by SL1983 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I highly doubt it was an emergency. I know him well and really didnt expect this from it, plus he lives down the street from me. The party had nothing to do with it, we were both sober and barely drank.
2006-08-05 21:23:16 · update #1
Seems a bit overdramatic. What if someone called him with an emergency and he had to go? Talk to him. Ask him why he left. Tell him it bothered you. Listen to what he says. If you just gruaduated college, you're too old to play games.
2006-08-05 21:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he ever done anything like that before? Well I would talk to him to see what the hell his problem was. You said you were at a party so that could have contributed a little. Either way it was really inconsiderate on his part to not let you know he needed to go. Just talk to him and make sure he didn't have an emergency. Something so little is not worth throwing a friendship out the window over.
2006-08-05 21:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by mystique_dragon4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He went out of his way to talk to you, not vice versa. If he didn't go to In n Out you wouldn't have seen him at all. I don't think he was under any obligation to sit with you. Weren't you going to go to In N Out anyway? I think deleting him from your Myspace was pretty childish. It's not like he slept with your girlfriend or anything! Now that would be shady. Maybe he sensed you were tired. Maybe he suddenly saw someone he wanted to say hi to. Who knows. I just don't think it's that big a deal, really. Do you?
2006-08-05 21:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by Foolhardysage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have myspace too, and I know how crazy people even get when you move them down on your top 8 or top whatever.. Just message him and see what was wrong.. What if it was an emergency, and his calls were trying to tell you that something was wrong?? Well, whatever it might be, never jump to conclusions.. (I do that sometimes, and it becomes pretty hectic >.< )
2006-08-05 21:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwwwww! Maybe it was just a miscommunication. Did you say I'll be right back? or Maybe something happened, it doesn't hurt to ask. If you consider him your best friend, I highly doubt he's shady. That wasn't nice of you you're mean, you should have called first to find out what happened. meanie!
2006-08-05 21:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by beachdiva954 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What i'm no longer able to believe is which you rather went and deleted your pal. You tossed out an previous pal (albeit in basic terms on MySpace) for some new guy who has been on your existence for like 5 minutes? He won't exchange. As each and all of the solutions already stated. he's exhibiting you his real colorings early on and that throughout basic terms ability the habit gets worse. not greater effectual. It somewhat does not be counted his motives for appearing like this. in spite of if his ex spouse cheated on him or somebody killed his dogs, he has no perfect telling you who you are able to and could't be acquaintances with. surprisingly whilst that pal exchange into being a competent guy or woman and praying to your family members in a time of decide for. so you might in basic terms delete him is deplorable. in case you go with for him to "exchange" then you somewhat tutor him you do no longer settle for habit like that. He can the two settle for which you will no longer take his sh!t or he can hit the line. i for my area think of you ought to get out of this ASAP. he's already controlling your habit, it will start up on line and it will start up moving its way into your man or woman existence. quickly you will have not have been given to any extent further acquaintances with the aid of fact he will isolate you from all of them, thinking they're all "pink flags" and you'd be so some distance remoted from people who you will no longer have every physique left to flow to once you're all on my own and depressing and the only guy or woman you have is him.
2016-10-01 12:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually wat both u guys did was wrong.... u just can t ignore a person who has been your best friend for soo many years
yes it was wrong on his part.... maybe it was an emergency os something. that he left u that day..... try and talk it out with him...... ignoring him won t solve the problem.....
2006-08-05 21:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he at least owes you an explanation for his behaviour.
Whether you did the right thing or the wrong thing is up you
2006-08-05 21:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by witchfromoz2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what get sober then read what asked and see how you feel in the morning like i can talk about sober
2006-08-05 21:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, has myspace really gotten so sad that you use it as a way of doing the cold shoulder......i now officially weep for humanity
2006-08-05 21:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by altorn_achm 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋