My ex husband and I have only been separated for over a month. I've only met his cousin 2x. Most of the time I see him, we don't talk. This was the time my husband and I were still together. After being separated over a month, I didn't have a place to stay and so I stayed with his cousin for 4 days. His cousin and I hang out once in that 4 days and got a bit drunk. Nobody flirted but I could sense some chemical energy going on. We have not yet have sex (only talking about my ex husband's issues) but I assume he wants to have sex or some kind of sexual affection. Should I flirt with him and give him a kiss to see if he kiss back or would this just be wrong? He cares a lot and has a better understanding what I am going through with my ex husband. Sometimes his cousin can't even figure out my ex husband's behaviour towards me and our little son together. I only been with my ex for a year and a half before we got married. Our marriage only lasted for 4 months. Please help guys! Thank you
2006-08-05 20:56:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The cousin is just trying to nail you.
2006-08-05 21:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by Erik E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have Sex just for the sake of having Sex. If you feel like you are falling in love with the cousin then maybe you should pursue a relationship with him ....but remember that your ex husband will probably never ever take you back if you mess around with his cousin. You mentioned getting back with your husband in another post.....sounds like you are really really confused right now and not ready to be in a relationship with anyone. Confusion lke that can cause you to make mistakes.......such as sleeping with your husband's cousin........take some time to be alone and think about what YOU really want not everyone else.
2006-08-08 21:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with keeping your pants on and just being friends with the cousin? Hanging out and drinking once isn't nearly enough of a connection to take such a chance at messing things up in the family.
2006-08-05 21:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's OK but it's kinda embarrassing for both you and your husbands cousin. They are family after all!
2006-08-05 21:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by o.s. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he's just working you to get in your pants. Vulnerable people are easy targets. Sorry.
2006-08-05 21:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by beachdiva954 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would make for some interesting family reunions!
2006-08-05 21:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slightly tacky and awkward, but you have to go with your feelings
2006-08-05 20:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋