What would you do if your husband only has sex with you to shut you up?
2006-08-05 20:37:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try having sex with his brother... It will shut him up...
2006-08-05 20:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by HONORARIUS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If it offends you, I suggest you tell him straight off that him having sex with you to shut you is not going to solve anything. Frankly, is he any good at all in bed? A man who only knows to solve problems by using his **** is a *****.
2006-08-06 04:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY TO act like you are ok. Try not to ask him for sex anymore. HE will think you ARE getting it elsewhere and begin wondering who? THEN he may just come give it to you so good, you will wonder what happened.
MEN are funny like that. THEY can do all their dirt, or ignore you, but the minute they realize you are ignoring them and stop begging them to be with you, then they SNAP and realize, "Hmmmm...what is she doing? She is not begging me no more...hmmmm..."
Girl, PRAY and ask GOD for help, in the meantime, think like a man and act like a lady! Faith without works is dead....SMILE
KEEP YOUR HEAD UP, STAY ENCOURAGED and GET BUSY doing something for YOU and let him beg or at least ask. WHEN HE does, don't volunteer much information.
HE will want to make love to you again, but this time you do not ask...that makes you feel belittled. NO man on earth should make you feel that way.
BUT he is your husband...DO not cheat because you THINK he is....even if he is--ask the question, do I love him? Will I stay anyway? If the answers to those are yes, why get more drama in your life by arguing. Just let him know what's up--how you love him and you want this to work and get busy....
DO NOT beg him again. ALSO find out what is eating him. It may be his job on his back or something else. RUB his back or give him a massage or surprise him with something sexy. IF he doesn't respond, ask him what is going on and you want to be there for him and leave it alone.
THEN GET BUSY taking care of YOURSELF and DO NOT ACT like it matters if he touches you. YOU Know it matters ,but he cannot. PRAY, BELIEVE and WATCH him come to himself. And watch GOD come through for YOU!
2006-08-06 04:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by L B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He may be having an affair or is a closet masturbater. I am married for many years now and can't get enough sex from my wife, she's a closet masturbater, and saves little for me. I'm going to start banging her sister, she's interested.
2006-08-06 07:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by paulsexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd invest in lots of "adult" toys & learn to satisfy myself-let him go w/o sex-keep yourself happy-
2006-08-06 03:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would be worried that he was gay. Or having an affair.
2006-08-06 03:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk alot every day lol..
2006-08-06 03:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋