What is the saddest thing anyone has ever said to you?

Question

Lemme change that a bit...

What is the saddest AND most touching thing anyone has ever said ta you?

Answer 1

this is not touching but sad..... when I was 34 years old I asked my mom why she abused me and never told me she loved me

and I asked her why she never wanted me. But yet she had two other children. and she loved them and never laid a finger on them or said one bad word.

My mom was married and had three kids...

.She responded.... from the moment I saw you for the first time and held you I knew you were unlovable.

I then asked her why she never stopped my father from molesting me. She said she knew nothing about it and then called me a whore for having sex with her husband.

I was sexually. physically, mentally and emotionally abused. My mom would beat my head with a hammer, or beat my head into a wall and kick the **** out of me.

if I was not being abused, i was totally ignored and was not considered part of the family.

To this day when there is a family get together for holidays. ( my father is dead) I do not sit at the table with the other adults. I sit at a card table in the other room with the kids.

One time she set only enough spaces at the dinning room table for all the family members, and some family friends. I was an adult

. I came to the table and was told by my mother there was not room at the table for me. and if i wanted to eat I was to eat in the family room. People at the table said they would move over and make room and my mother said no it was ok and gave me her look of hate, and I knew to leave the room.

Thirty seven years later i am still waiting for my mother to love me. I begged to be put in a foster home after I had a butcher knife held to my throat and my mom said she wanted to kill me.

The neigbors called social service how many times. But no one believed me. because we had a big fancy house, with nice cars and custum made furniture. We had it all, a boat a camper

. we lived in a nice neighbor hood. So my family would tell social service I lied to caused trouble.

My father was an alcholic and my family said I was having trouble dealing wth my fathers drinking. My brother and sister were well rewarded for lieing for my parents.

Ya I am strange. and strange for sharing this . not many people know about this.so i am opening up to the world.....

My mother always told me she tried to me get in a home for retarted children but I was so retarted that they would not take me so she was stuck with me.....

I asked why i was not given up at birth. i was told because the family would talk and want to know what happened to me...

when i was pregnant my grandmother told me. your mother spent her life hating you and will never be able to love something that came from someone she spent her life hating.

THIS WAS THE MOST TOUCHING THING. ( i GUESS SOMEONE DID SAY SOMETHING TOUCHING)

When someone told me I was beatuful and I was I was a good mother to my daughter. The first time in my life I heard someone say something good about me. My daughterwas a baby at the time.

Answer 2

Man, it's hard to choose. I've been in a lot of therapy with other people throughout my life, and I've heard just about everything. I think one of the saddest was a story from this girl in junior high about how she was sexually abused by her father so many times that she actually had a children's trauma center named after her. Another was from a girl I met last year who said she has a fear of Mickey Mouse or any other Disney images because of the time she was raped at Disney World when she was seven. She also showed me the cuts on her arms and legs from her self-mutilation habit. Then there was an old German lady who was really nice and who's been in and out of the hospital for depression ever since her husband died -- in 1973. I could tell you a ton of others, but I think you get the idea.

Answer 3

When my girl freind told that she does not love me at all. That was the saddest part of my life.But i think after it's part of life and we get almost get hyper about negation. God bless u. Amen.

Answer 4

Nobody wants you" - Mom

Answer 5

didn't say a word. I went in the hall to find out how my son was doing, ran into a friend who was an emt and asked him.. He fell down and started crying

Answer 6

a child who was diagnosed with cancer at 7 years of age, surived until she was eight and told the doctors she was ready to die...ready to die at 8 years old...i cant wrap my head around that...shes so brave for a little girl

Answer 7

saddest hm.....
i'm not like any other people and i'm not pretty
touching hm...
i hav a good leadership qualities and people respect me on who i am

Answer 8

"You are my best girls and I always loved you" My Granny told this to me and my mother a day before she died.Beautiful sentence but at that moment it felt so sad and painful

Answer 9

hmnnn... Being a person with a dead soul, I don't know... probably when My mother said that when my grandmother died (her mother-in-law) she said that my granny was more of a mother to her than her own...

I don't know really... Emotion isn't logical...

Answer 10

I want to be perfect for you.

Sappy, I know, but in the moment... sigh.