Why and whats wrong with guys just being close friends for life beside being married at the same .
2006-08-05 20:23:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
because of their experience. once bitten twice shy. the body language of guys tell gals whether they are after them for sex or friendship? other wise what is the need of guys asking for photos of the girls when girls start chatting with boys.
2006-08-05 20:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
this is what i've been told from men themselves:
men use love to get sex
women use sex to get love
therefore... a woman is willing to "give it up" to a man, to get that love from him...whereas a man is willing to say anything and do anything to get the sex, even if it's pretending he loves her, or thinking he loves her when he actually is just lusting. it may not be true for ALLL guys, but it certainly is in many cases... men are more visually and physically stimulated, whereas women are more emotionally and mentally stimulated. it's much easier for a woman to get attached and love and care for her partner Before and/or After sex, because the *relationship* is what matters..sex is just a perk. whereas guys have a much harder time getting attached to a woman, even after sex, because they are not inclined to being very emotional; the *sex* is what matters, a committed girlfriend is just a perk.
if ur different, i'm sorry if i've offended u. but girls need to be careful and protect their best interests because a lot of guys ARE like that.... we have to set boundaries for what we want in a boyfriend and a relationship, and not give in until we get that. because we are prone to loving and committing regardless of the physical aspect....that is why we have to protect the physical along w/ the emotional.
2006-08-05 20:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah....Right!! Buddy!!
2006-08-06 22:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by COOKIE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋