I don't act on these "crushes", but it's really weird that sometimes I think another man is attractive and want his attention. Really I want all men to think I am "wow". Is this natural?
2006-08-05 19:28:44 · 17 answers · asked by lv2bmom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
nothing as long as you don't act on those crushes.. that is the key keep it as an innocent little crush anfd don't make it any more then that
2006-08-05 19:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is very normal and I am sure your husband has had the same thing. You know like when you are trying to get him to order something and he is glaring at the waitress.
Search and look at what you are missing. Is your husband not paying attention to you anymore. Do you need a day out to be pamperd and not feel like a mom or a wife anymore. I know marriage is very hard and it is nice to see a good looking man and its even better when a man returns the crush.
A few things that have worked for me is I would say you know today when I went to the store this man said are these kids yours? They cant be. You look to good to have kids. He would be all over me that night.
Also I would say you know I really need you to tell me that you love me and you need me. I am needing to feel close to you because I feel weak and I dont want to feel weak in our marriage.
Marriage is so hard and I tell my friends it is so overrated but hang in there. Marriage is the hardest job you may have but it is worth it.
Your perfectly normal... I have noticed men and I have a good marriage!
2006-08-06 02:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by michaele m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to have little crushes on other men. I think all ladies want to have every man think they are hot, but that will probably never happen. Maybe your husband isn't giving you the attention you want. maybe try to get HIS attention instead of these other guys. You married for a reason, right?
2006-08-06 02:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by Xtal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's part of our femininity that we want to be found attractive by other men. I like when a guy checks me out and I can't wait to tell my husband. He never gets jealous he just says, yeah, they should be checking you out. It's fun. I love my husband too and would never do anything but it's nice to know I'm still attractive.
2006-08-06 02:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is natural as it shows you have a healthy imagination and that after all you are human.The best part is that you do not act on them and you are staying faithful to your husband.So Do not think that you are not normal it is just that you want to be thought of as a sexy young woman and tell me what woman doesn't.I am a man and I say good on you for being a perfectly normal person.
2006-08-06 02:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously sumin is wrong! JK! everyone has crushes on other ppl when they have what they want rite infront of them...its normal...if you really are getting serious about hooking up w/ another guy other than ur husband, then divorce ur husband or tell him how you feel...u guys can talk about it and, yeah
2006-08-06 02:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by loosenupmybuttonsbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply too normal!!!! those are not stupid little crushes at all!!!! Wouldn't it be perfect to look hot and sexy and get those WOWS from all these men who are fighting to ask you out and then just tell them softly: sorry but i'm already married! nothing is wrong, babe!
2006-08-06 02:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by Xia C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you weren't ready to be married. Crushes are ok, but dont bring them into the bedroom and dont act on them. We've all had crushes, but it depends how far we go to act on them is where it crosses the line between harmless to potentially harmful.
2006-08-06 02:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by Baghdad Pete ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you. everyone has a wandering eye. as my gf says "i don't care where you get your appetite, as long as you get it satisfied at home". look all you want.
2006-08-06 02:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn’t matter where you get your appetite so long as eat at home
2006-08-06 02:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋