2006-08-05 19:21:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes twice my first husband was abusive my second well i hate him there are alot of other reasons but it all involves around the hate lol
2006-08-05 19:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by heather f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got the divorce after 30 years or she did! The first and most important is LOVE. If you still love each other than work harder on the marriage. How? I did not know this but there is more to a marriage than just SEX. I though everything could be solved with a good nights roll in the hay. But that's not the case. So after thirty years and several relationships, I found that there are at least 5 love languages and each one fills a man's and woman's love tank. Sex is only one, and not necessarily the most important especially after 5-years or so. So, before you get a divorce, make sure you don't love each other anymore. If you do read about these love languages together and work on staying together. Divorce is no fun, costly, and lonely!
2006-08-06 02:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes often because I didn't want to deal with the issues associated with marriage. Marriage (I've learned) is one of the hardest things to make work if your perception of what it is is wrong - if you marry because someone makes you feel good - you're definitely on the wrong track- Marriage takes a WHOLE lot of effort on both parts. I thought about divorce several times but it passed because I realized that first off I really love my hubby - secondly if I let him go and got with someone else it might not be the same type of issues but I would have issues with the next person as well because that is the way life is
2006-08-06 02:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by 2deep4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times, but I learned over the years that Love comes in a very slow pace. You can't always just jump and run. There will be good times and bad times and somehow as you grow older things that you once fought about just seem less important and you grow closer and need each other more. I think when your young and raising a family, things are just harder for each of you, but once your children are grown and things slow down in your life, example your health, finances aren't as tight, etc. you just seem to stop the bickering over money, kids and sex and you learn to appreciate each other more. You for the first time in your married life have time for each other.
2006-08-06 03:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Because sometimes my husband is an ******! And I figure I can do it on my own if I really needed to.
2006-08-06 02:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my husband is an alcaholic pot head and can be a real jerk, he even got arrested for assult and battery on me and bought pot when he had our 4 year old son, i'm so done with him
2006-08-06 03:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by funnychic30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i think my wife doesn't want 2 b married 2 me anymore
2006-08-06 02:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this page is not long enough
2006-08-06 02:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋