2006-08-05 19:16:51 · 25 answers · asked by dragoon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No - because the man had nothing to do with what was wrong in your relationship with your wife. Whatever issues you have you need to resolve them with her because she is responsible for her actions in the situation and the man she cheated with did not take marital vows with you she did - maybe you 2 need to get counseling to help deal with the issues that may have caused her to stray and to help you get past the fact that she cheated and begin to build your relationship again.
2006-08-05 19:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by 2deep4u 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't put yourself through the agony and pain of confronting the man your wife cheated with. Let it go for now, but if it happens again, then confront them both.
2006-08-06 02:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by Morningglory689 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u think she cares about him? Or was it nothing? Cuz if it was something and lately there was nothing but conflict between the two of you...she must have found s0mething in him that wasn't there with you anymore ~ could you have prevented that? If so then try to work it out w/ your WIFE in a civil way wout pointing the blame and listening to what she has to say. Don't confront him unless shes still seeing him while she is trying to gain your trust again. It's not his fault. And chances are if they care for each other and she might be really feelin those mixed emotions ....causing more drama in the situation may cause her to long for the comfort and peace she felt with him and bring them closer together. Thats xactly how i met my romeo.
2006-08-06 02:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Compton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how far you want to take it. Things get out of control very easily. What are your expectations by confronting him? Admission of guilt, a fight? Why bother you already know its him. And a fight, it could be simple bare fists or go further and include guns and death for one or both of you or an innocent bystander. So ask yourself what are you Really expecting out of a confrontation. If you and your wife are working it out, then concentrate on that and if you two are splitting up, then concentrate on you.
2006-08-06 02:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by styymy_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You need to find out what's wrong in your marriage and either fix it or get out of it.
As big of a temptation as it may be to just go tell him off, all it would do is add more drama to the whole situtation. Your wife, you, and your marriage, are what you need to focus on, and what can be done there.
I know it has to be tough to just let it go...but it isn't going to do anything positive. You have way too many other things to worry about and deal with...
2006-08-06 08:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just posted on this yesterday, never a good idea to go into battle when the wounds are fresh. And I agree with Iggwad, she had the committment with you, follow the penguin, he won't lead you astray.
But do get some closure without exacting retribution or retaliation. Time wounds all heels!!! Believe that. Peace.
2006-08-06 16:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it worth doing jail time for, or is she worth it? I'm afraid the joke will wind up being on you yet again. Dump this sorry cheating pig. Find the reason why she cheated so you won't make the same mistakes in your next relationship. Good Luck
2006-08-06 07:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by paulsexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Was he your friend? A family member? The rational answer? Don't bother. IF he knew she was married, he's scum. Scum don't react to things like humans react. Might as well expect the sun to feel remorse for causing you to sunburn. If he didn't know she was married, he really is guilty of nothing but poor judgment.
2006-08-06 11:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her ASAP........... No one should ever be with someone that cheats on them. You deserve better. He is not worth the effort to confront or the consequences you might face if you loose it on him.
2006-08-06 02:23:36 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about you confronting yourself why is it someone else you want to confront because you couldn't keep your woman to yourself. If it hadn't been him it would be someone else and by now it probably is.
2006-08-06 02:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋