Has anyone that's gay ever argued with their boyfriend or girlfriend in public, and made it clearly obvious that you were gay( from what you were arguing about), and then you got mean or weird looks ( maybe from a homophobe who thinks that gays shouldn't argue in public)?
Examples of what you were arguing about would be nice.
Telling me the response would be even nicer.
2006-08-05 18:37:08 · 11 answers · asked by ac 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am bi but yea we have gotten in tons of arguements over everything from being late cause I could not find something to wear to a pretty bad fight that happened when her ex showed up at a bar that we were at - and she was trying to start a fight with me about seeing this girl since they had just broken up and yes I was with her before they broke up - bad me - but I am not the reason ther broke up - it was over before I started to see her.
Most people in that bar knew us though so they knew we were together but we fought in other places - and the fighting isn't what really got us the looks - it was more when we were kissing and stuff in public or holding hands that made people gasp and stare but I never cared about that cause I loved her.
To me it was like fighting with anyone else or kissing anyone else in public - I wonder why you asked about gays getting in public fights??
Really - people who like or love and date people of the same sex have to ignore society's gasps and stares cause it will happen - but that all fades away - I don't think it is any different than dating a guy or girl of the opposite sex that say, had ,tatoos and piercings all over their face with crazy hair, etc - these people get looks too but who cares? Even moms and kids fighting in public get looks - all fights get looks like go fight somewhere else -people are nosy and will stare and give looks to much of anything - not just gays fighting ya know.
2006-08-05 18:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by kc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pff! oooooh! loads of times! i am bi, but i rememer one time i was really pisses at my girlfriend coz we were sitting at a cafe, having a drink and chatting about us, and just as i was returning from the WC i caught her hitting on another gal! that got me soooooooo worked up i could actually feel the blood rushing up to my head. all i could think about was that a few minutes earlier she had been talking sweetly to me and vowing her love and **** like that. sooooo two-faced!! b4 i knew what had gotten into me, i just stomped over to them and shouted "what the hell is going on?" my gal said the usual "it's not what u think" and the row started heating up. it wasn't long before i turned to the other ***** and shoved her hard demanding her to "get out of my sight". she took a few steps back, but otherwise, didn't listen.
simply and quickly put, we got kicked out of the cafe coz what followed afterwards was a little PG13+, if u know what i mean.
yeah, we got a little more than just a few stares. but that could have been an heterosexual couple fiighting about the same reason. why should sexual preferance pay any role in this situation? ppl stare all the time even when heteros have fights. it's a normal thing.
2006-08-05 21:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by bukroot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 23:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't argue in public. Period. It's a bad idea, and it lacks class. This goes for straight people too!
2006-08-05 18:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by jumpingrightin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we've argued in public..but we live in a totally gay city within a city..so that just about everyone here is gay..so nobody pays much attention...west end Vancouver BC
2006-08-05 18:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's better to talk out your arguements, for any couple, especially in public. Don't get carried away or too upset, it's just a stupid arguement+-!
2006-08-06 13:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes. my now ex-boyfriend and i had a brawl in public. there was hair flying everywhere! it ended when i applied a guillotine choke on him---he tapped out.
we fought over who got to eat the last piece of cheese pizza. i got to eat it and he got a bald spot on the back of his neck. that f***er!
2006-08-05 19:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by St. Anthony of Y!Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did, twice. umm, i didnt even notice who was around, coz i was angry. If they had annoyed me, i would have shout "What the hell u looking at?". it just isnt in their right to being judgemental of minor things when they obviously dont even care about the problem in issue.
2006-08-05 19:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry,I have not seen one argueing
2006-08-05 18:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by Frendlygal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i havent had mean looks but wierd yes.
like when me and Darren (my man) go to the grocery store,
he does my nut in saying can i have this can i have that......
so i have to shout at him in the end and people turn and look at me and just go MEN EH!
2006-08-05 23:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋