We were introduced. He is a very nice guy. We slept together once. We started talking every day. I got excited and now I call him ever third hour when I am awake. He has asked me not to call him like crazy. I miss him right now and he won't pick up his phone either. I called 53 times he won't answer what do I do? He is a potential good long last boyfriend.
2006-08-05 18:33:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
QUIT STALKING HIM!!! That would be a good start! He may have to get a restraining order on you if you dont stop. Dont smother him let him know you are interested but dont be a Psycho!!!
2006-08-05 18:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously hope that you are kidding. If not, he probably thinks that you are a psychotic obsessive stalker.
Honey, if he asked you not to call him so much, he was giving you the benefit of the doubt and a kind heads up to back off a little bit. A hint which you didn't take.
I can realte very well to your feelings, however most guys do not find this kind of behavior attractive. Actually they find it smothering and a little repulsive.
If he is not answering the phone that means that he doesn't want to talk to you. Can you blame him???
I think you hopes of im being a good long lasting boyfriend went down the toliet about 50 phone calls ago.
2006-08-05 18:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mystery Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to keep this guy YOU HAVE GOT TO BACK OFF!!!
I can't blame the guy nobody likes to be harassed that much. Unfortunately you also may have to accept the possibility that you may have been a one night stand to him. Guys can at first act all sincere to get what they want.
Don't call him for a couple of days (no matter how hard that may be) and see what happens.
2006-08-05 18:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by SpecialK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing. Put the phone DOWN. You are calling him WAAAAAY too much. He's most likely feeling suffocated by you, if not a little freaked out by your obessive behavior. 53 times is a little bit too many times. Wait for him to call you.
2006-08-05 18:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
53 times?? Good god, don't scare him away..he has already taken an interest in you, please don't push by being a pain.
Most guys want to be the aggressor or should I say wants to be the one calling, at least give him the chance.
Good luck, you may have lost him already. Take things slow, AND do apologize for what you are doing.
2006-08-05 18:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by sunnyrays61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh stop calling. Make him miss you. Men get annoyed when you call all the time. Give him space. Don't call for a day, I'm sure he'll check on you the following day..
2006-08-05 19:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by yodge_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he isn't because you are acting psycho, that guy is currently running away from you as fast as he can. I really do hope this is a joke but if it isn't you need some counselling and some serious medication, oh and some self respect wouldn't hurt either.
2006-08-05 18:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
53 times I think that is a little too much. Stop calling and he might call you.
2006-08-05 19:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by mmjuarez4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"He is a potential good long last boyfriend"....... Not too good at all.
You might wanna rethink your relationship with him if he keeps ignoring your calls.
2006-08-05 18:36:49 · answer #9 · answered by Olivia Maer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some room quit being compulsive find something else to do for real how old are u?
2006-08-05 19:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by heather f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋