How do you feel about a person you have been married to for 6 years? Is the magic still there? Should it be?

Answer 1

I have been married to my husband for almost 7 years...and I love the man more each day...He is my lover and my best freind. He is there when I need him whether it be good or bad . He takes care of me and worries about me when we are apart..We are soul mates and I would do anything for him but you know what...He would never ask me for anything ..We have both been married before but never has a man shown me such love !!!! If you are with the right person yes the magic should still be there

Answer 2

It doesn't matter if a couple is married for 6 or 60 years; what mattes most is the love that they have in their hearts for each other. The magic of love will forever live even beyond death if the couple is very much attached to one another that nobody and nothing can ever take away from them that magic.

Being married for years do not mean that the couple's love should die down because of time element. In fact, the longer the relationship lives, the more magic it should have because love lives and thrives more because of long-time companionship and commitment.

The only time when magic ends between the husband and wife is when they find that they are no longer in love with each other. Then, if that is the case, both should let go and move on with the hope in their hearts that they'd find somebody else who could give them happiness.

But magic should always exist between the husband and wife and both of them should aspire to make the marriage work through mutual love, trust, understanding and support. Without trust, love won't live; without love, magic won't exist.

Answer 3

Think of it like this, say you built a big beautiful house but never did any upkeep on it, no yard work, yearly maintenance, etc.
It would eventually look like crap and begin to fall apart.
Same with a marriage. In order for it to stay "beautiful" you have got to continually work at it.
So many people think that once your married your set ,but that's really not true. When you were dating you did things to keep the "magic" going but when you get married you sometimes get settled so to speak and don't try as hard.
Make each other a priority. Make one night a week your night, exclusively you two, turn off the phone and TV if you need to and go on a date, take a walk, cook diner together, whatever just focus on each other. It can make a huge difference.
Also don't get sucked into Hollywoods version of, love, romance and marriage, realize that reality is somewhat different. It is OK at 6 years into a marriage to be in "comfortable" love, a best friend kinda love.
To me that's the real love, the deep lasting kind not based on lust but on mutual respect and companionship not to say that the passion can't be there but that it is not the defining thing in a marriage.
The magic is still there, only it is a different kind of magic. Everything grows, ages and matures, including marriages. Just because it is different now than when you first got married doesn't mean its not still right.

Answer 4

Every marriage is different since everyone gets married for different reasons. Some so they are not alone, to have kids, they were told to or they are in love. I have been with my husband since I was 19, we moved in together when I was 21 and we married when I was 28. I am now 33 and I couldnt imagine my life without him and especially with our daughter who is 3. You develop a bond that can be considered magic, but some people are just content to have the other person around and thats all.

Answer 5

like all relationships (or at least the majority) after a while the "magic" will fade, but what counts is the fact that the person still has feelings for u...in some cases u will feel the magic after yrs but most dont. dont get sad, though, unless they just come out and say they dont love u anymore, then divorce their a$$, why do u want to live w/ someone who doesnt love u back, dont feel guilty if u know u did nothing to break the love or "magic"
it just happens...

Answer 6

I have been married to my husband for 24 years. Yes, the magic is still there, as it should be.

Over the years the trust grows along with the love and caring we show to each other.

Answer 7

Well.. that is a problem that approaches different couples at different times and at/under different circumstances. Unfortunately, for some couples, the newness of marriage wears thin... It requires BOTH.. the wife and the guy to keep that love alive.. nights alone.... the wife being clean and at times wearing provacative clothes in the bedroom... It is a serious team effort and for some it is no problem at all while for others, some effort has to be put forth

Answer 8

Some say love, it is a river that drowns the tender reed.
Some say love, it is a razor that leaves your soul to bleed.
Some say love, it is a hunger, an endless aching need.
I say love, it is a flower, and you it's only seed.

It's the heart, afraid of breaking, that never learns to dance.
It's the dream, afraid of waking, that never takes a chance.
It's the one, who won't be taken, who cannot seem to give.
And the soul, afraid of dying, that never learns to live.


Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. Love is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.

Answer 9

Yes of course its all love and if the magic is not there any more it wont last this far. just hold up tight to what least it will slip Way from you and wont know.

Answer 10

Very good question.

In my case I was with the same spouse for 27 years, until we lost her to cancer.

we raised four lovely daughters together and the love and spark was still there until the end.