i've heard of stories of girls that they tell their parents, and their relationship becomes stronger. i would like to tell her, it happened about a year a go with my ex, no i'm 16, i am active with my new boyfriend we've been together for 9 months. i'm a good student, i get awesome grades, i'm very advanced with school, and i'm respectful. i'm not some little hoe, i just happen to fall in love. if you were to see me on the street you wouldn't be able to think anything of me other than i'm some kind of nerd and plus i look like i am 12. i don't want it to hurt my mom, i want to be honest, and i don't want her to think i'm dirty because i've practically have slep with as much guys she has slep with. i love her, and i'm a good daughter or should i just keep inside, and tell her when i'm about to get married. opinions from mothers would GREATLY BE APPRECIATED.. :P
2006-08-05 18:12:47 · 11 answers · asked by ...i <3 Xavi... 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You are right, telling her would hurt her. You want to tell her because you think it will make you feel better. You shouldn't trade your comfort for her pain. If she were the type of mom that wanted to talk to her 16 year old about her sex life, she would ask. If you tell her, you will not be able to un-tell her and if it turns out to be a big mistake, you will have alot of regret. Think seriously about this, it could affect your relationship with your parents for the rest of their lives.
You should not tell her now, nor ever, IMHO.
2006-08-05 18:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by CaliDoc 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
JUST USE PROTECTION. i dont think there's nothing wrong. i told my mom. yes she wanted to kill me. litereally. driving in a street hfull of snow is not the best way. but i had to tell her. this was was when i was 20. yes a late bloomer. so if you feel like she wont freak yeah i see why not..
just use protection!
2006-08-06 01:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by thatswhoIam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um yes you should tell her! but dont tell her that you have done it more that twice! no way... haha that will ruin you! just like be very calm about it and just happen to come up wit it... like sit down wit her like watchin telly and when u have the gutz just say something like.. mum what age were you when you first lost your virginity?? and then work it up shell prob end up askin you after that question!
2006-08-06 01:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you told that u r good at studies and u r afraid to tell u'r mom that u had with u'r x boy friend.
you r doing a great mistake . tell all the truth to u''r mom because a girl tells her mom all the secrets and desired once to her mom
so dont hide any thing near your mom,but tell that when she is in a happy mood..... ALL THE BEST..........:-)..
2006-08-06 01:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by Uday 4 All 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your mom have an open relationship I think that you should have a talk with her regardless of what you think she is going to love you regardless,
2006-08-06 01:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by nay nay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what kinda personality ur mom is .. if she is down to earth then yes . but no if you think she would take it personally
2006-08-06 01:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by jack jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the discussion arises, do not lie. otherwise do not open the can of worms.
2006-08-06 01:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by netkomm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER SO SHE CAN HELP YOU WITH BIRTH CONTROL
2006-08-06 01:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by Penney S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably already knows..
2006-08-06 01:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by pitbullcopper2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO dont tell her please its huge problem and kick your boyfriend from your life please . lol
2006-08-06 02:23:16 · answer #10 · answered by skpampi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋