my bf leves me @hme with our daughter so he can go out with his friends. he does'nt take me anywhere he just leves me at hme on the wknds.so what should i do about him?
2006-08-05 17:56:52 · 15 answers · asked by sweetanna272006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to talk to him about how you feel. If he doesn't change his ways, leave him and find a guy who will treat ya like a princess. good luck
2006-08-05 18:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by ♥KP♥MH♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds very familiar. you really need to find time just you and him and really tell him what you think about him always going out and leaving you girls alone all the time. its ok for him to have friends but is not fair for you to suffer. you would like to go and do things with him and things like that. just be careful if he starts to yell and not want to listen and scares you just tell him calmly that you cant put up with it and make sure he dont hit you
2006-08-05 18:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by you_me_set 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
twist things up go out before he does and leave him with the baby or wait untill he leaves take the baby to your mom or dads or something and go out come home later than him that will show him
2006-08-05 18:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by heather f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fix yourself up real nice and try to go out with your friends...Then talk to your man and tell him that you expect him to take you out once every other week and that every week he should make it an effort to spend quality time with you and his daughter.:)
2006-08-05 18:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you id tell him to sit on his *** and take care of his kid its not just yours and you need time with your friends. set a date out of every other week to go out get a babysitter for that night. TELL HIM U AINT TAKIN HIS **** NO MORE. he will learn to be a better lover and a better father.
2006-08-05 18:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by jrg20078 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a baby sitter. and you go out. next weekend have plans already and go out with your friends. get your purse and keys and go and the hell with him. tell him you are going out this weekend with your friends. and if he don't like it to bad. he is being rude and disrespectful to you. you both should be going out together and or with the kids. tell him to grow up. have fun this weekend coming up. you go girl. get some back bone.
2006-08-05 18:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stay home with my son on weekends too.
but so does my fiance lol
I think you both made the child and you should both be at home with it on weekends and from time to time go out together...
2006-08-05 18:04:07 · answer #7 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. If you can't come to a solution you are both happy with, find someone who will be better for you and your child.
2006-08-05 18:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by KentukeeFryedChik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go wild with your friends when ur bf is at home. tell him to look after ur daughter, and make wild plans with ur frens.....include guys if possible and make sure ur bf knows abt it!
2006-08-05 18:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Give him his personal time or else he'll make some personal time for himself without you or the girl PERIOD. (ie. Divorce)
2006-08-05 18:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋