My girlfriend just gave birth and we are curious to know if a vibrator can safely be used externally.
2006-08-05 17:50:47 · 13 answers · asked by jmathisen02 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
She must really be a horny toad if she is up for that. However, orgasm will help her uterus shrink back to its original shape. The contractions might be painful for a while.
Please don't allow any penetration and make sure everything is sterilized.
2006-08-05 18:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as she feels ok it should be fine. Externally. There really shouldnt be any penetration for at least 6 weeks. Especially by you. Unless of course you wanna be like me. My exhusband didnt want to wait so I could heal. I went to my 6 week checkup and was already 2 weeks pregnant. Then I got pregnant AGAIN after that. My 6 year old and my 5 year old were born in the same year. Jan 2000 and Dec 2000. My 4 year old was born Jan 2002. It was SO hard. Not just on my body, but my emotions. It puts you at a higher risk for Post Partum depression.
Hope ya'll have fun with your toys though!! Its a good way for you both to get pleasure without putting yourselves at risk for other things. Good luck!! And Congratulations on your new baby.
2006-08-06 00:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by ~Gigglz~ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shold wait quite a while because you vigina is still healing from pushing something the size of a watermelon out of the size of a lemon. So maybe at least a good month at the mimnuim or you will face serious pain
2006-08-06 01:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lady E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure it can! However, if it is close after giving birth then an orgasm will likely be painful for her. I'd take it easy if I were her but it won't hurt anything to give it a whirl. Good Luck to your friend
2006-08-06 02:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your comfort level. It's all up to you.
Internaly 6 weeks just like sex but External It's you, your the only one that knows how you feel.If you feel up to it..GO FOR IT,but the SLIGHTEST discomfort discontinue.:) GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-06 01:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by ♥mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give it a week and use one that has been sanitized with rubbing alcohol. Don't worry, it still works! :) Internally, the guidelines for intercourse apply, no penetration for the time period the doctor gave.
2006-08-06 00:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Flowergirrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't tear or have an episiotomy, it should be fine. The contractions of orgasms are useful in helping the uterus get back to size.
2006-08-06 00:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife waited a good couple of weeks,but she did tear in four places.
2006-08-06 00:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by xjtlongx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can use it whenever you want after you have your baby, you said that she had the baby already go ahead and do it. as long as she don't have penetration
2006-08-06 00:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by Jersey girl on Florida. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait at least a half hour, just for good measure.
2006-08-06 00:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by beadtheway 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋