on my way back 2 get him i passed his ex!!! ON THE SAME EXACT ROAD THAT HIS DAD LIVES ON!! im 100% sure it was her & she looked directly @ me! i was gone 4 apprx. 3&1/2 hrs. she lives in tumwater which is 30 miles away! now tell me? what are the odds of her being in the same vicinity & his day off @ the same exact time as he (we) were? & i can understand him asking me how long i would be? but, not where's my location? i said 2 him, it was like you were seeing how much time you had before i got there or something? i mean why noit just ask me, how long will you be? help!!! whats your opinion & what would you all do?....thx...:)...:(%*&@!#(*%$....!!!...??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
2006-08-05 17:23:44 · 9 answers · asked by bashfullyblessed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get the punk out of your life. dont b like all the other girls who waste their time on worthless
punks. plenty of good guys r available. a nice girl
like u can find a good ol boy that will show u respect and appreciate your kindness and
beauty. leave him b4 it is too late.
thanx-a-million
nate
2006-08-05 18:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by supernate the star*catcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should've never taken him back in the 1st place, but instead, made him start from scratch with you to make him earn your love and trust back. Although, that doesn't matter now unless he's cheating again. I'd definitely be suspicious. But don't make assumptions quite yet. It could still be coincidence. Ask him how his ex is doing. If he's being honest he won't even expect the question and will say something like, "I have no idea! I haven't seen her in forever!" but if he has something to hide he'll say "well...good I guess" or he might ask why you want to know. Then you just tell him exactly what you put here for your question. Explain it to him and ask him what happened that day. Just be totally open with him. If you would be willing, tell him you need a break for a while or that you're having doubts about your relationship. See if he goes back to his ex again or if he tries everything he can to hold onto you. Then you'll know what he truly wants. But if he ever cheats again, kiss him goodbye and move on.
2006-08-05 19:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by Silver Spoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight out if he was with her or not. Trust is a big thing in a relationship in my opinion. But seriously do you trust him in the first place? Has he ever done anything to lose your trust? You may be thinking they were spending intimate time together but they could have also just been acting like friends at that time. Why not sit down like adults and have a calm talk about it. Work out the kinks in your relationship..better now than later.
2006-08-05 17:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 23:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make him 'fess up til you are really sure.
Know if you really are getting paranoid then ask him. Though there are slight chances that you are wrong and that he was not cheating on you. And if that ever happens it could totally ruin your relationship. On the other hand, if you ARE right then it saves you the time from hanging with a cheater.
I suggest that you get more information. Like from people around you. Like your friends from where he works. *EHEM* I mean...spies :| In first place, you shouldn't be with him anymore. He lied to you...and he wasn't faithful to you when you guys were apart. He's not worth your time. Don't make yourself his dummy.
2006-08-05 18:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by heartshapedbox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like he is definately hidding something from u. when both of u are calm ask him straight out if he has been with her. by the way he reacts you'll know if he is telling u the truth or not. good luck
2006-08-05 17:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn chika im so srry but honestly if you havent already figured this out hes probably cheating i know you didnt want to hear that but its probably true GET HIM BACK go get a guy have sex with him in you guys bed (around time hed get home from work) so he walks in on you punch him in his lying cheating face n either walk out n leave or kick his punka$s ouuuttt!!! =)
best of luck to you hunnie
2006-08-05 18:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little suspicious but give him the benefit of the doubt, once. Tell him you saw her and ask him.
2006-08-05 18:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm sounds like he is doing something he shouldn't n trying 2 cover tracks not very well though
2006-08-05 17:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋