Would you have a relationship with a person who works in the "Adult" film industry?

Question

Those who work in the "Adult" film industry consider it to be "just a job." What do you think?

Answer 1

Um, well it depends on what they do in the industry.

If they are a photographer, a filmer, a producer, a script writer (hehe, yeah, there are scripts), or anything else that doesn't involve the flesh touching flesh or the exchange of fluids, then heck, in a heartbeat.

Otherwise, I'd have to carefully consider it, mostly because of the strong possibility in the gay community (ok, and elsewhere as well) of std's such as aids.

This is of course assuming a sexual relationship, if your talking friendship or even a fairly close relationship, then no, I wouldn't have any problems at all.

Love as always,

Sebastian

Answer 2

I guess it would depend what you wanted from the relationship. If it were just sex, then yeah, why not, I'm sure it would be great! But if you were after love, loyalty & devotion & were a jealous or possessive person, then I'd stay away from it!
A few years ago, I was in a relationship with a guy in that industry, it was a mutual thing that there would be no committment to the relationship or each other, so it worked well, there was no heartache afterwards & no problems throughout.
Now, I'm in a relationship with a great hard working man in the hospitality industry & I'm in it for the future, love, devotion & blah blah blah & its working just nicely cause its what I want for the now.
Its up to the person I guess. You can't expect much though, even if this person vows their loyalty to you, you'd spend your days & nights wondering.......

Answer 3

I would certainly be friends with someone who worked in the adult film industry if they were a nice enough person... but I just wouldn't be able to have a sexual relationship with them.

I wouldn't be willing to share myself with someone who took sex so lightly... and shared their body with other people for money... and without emotional connection. I guess I just think of sex and my body as something more sacred and special than that... something only to be shared out of love with someone who I know respects me and themselves.

But then again there are people who don't work in the "adult" industry who share their bodies just as irresponsibly... the only difference... no camera or paycheck. But I wouldn't sleep with them either. It's not necessarily about the "industry" ~ it's about the fact that I want to feel like I'm special when someone chooses to be intimate with me. It would take all of the meaning away if they slept with a lot of people indiscriminately.

Answer 4

No do no longer tell her yet, she's too youthful to comprehend the assumption of 'person videos' yet besides. the only way she ought to attainable locate out is that if some nasty mum and dad point out it to their young ones who then tell your daughter yet at this age this is totally no longer likely. do no longer shop it a locked secret from her and if she happens to ask what you probably did whilst she's older then in simple terms tell her then. there's no longer something to be ashamed approximately what you probably did and the actuality which you stopped once you grew to grow to be pregnant prepare you have sturdy morals and values. in simple terms be arranged to tell her whilst she's somewhat older (if the placement arises) you have pently of time to prepare what you will say! yet whilst the placement never arises then do in simple terms no longer tell her, this isn't any massive deal, my son is 4 and does not comprehend each interest i've got ever had. a job is a job.

Answer 5

The only thing that would bother me would be the higher incidence of STD's. Otherwise they are people with wprk too--they fake orgasms, others fake civility to customers and co-workers . . . it doesn't mean that their feelings are any less than anyone else's, that they are less deserving of love and kindness. In fact, they may be MORE deservinf of it because their self-esteem, I'm sure, takes a big hit when people only want them for their body or skills and knowledge than the feelings and soul inside.

Answer 6

I wouldn't! I feel if my man REALLY loves me, he needs no other woman than me! He can watch me strip, see me naked, if the relationship has been long enough and he plans a life-long commitment with me, he even gets to make love to me. If he wants sex videos, he can have one of us (and it's GOT to be put in a lock box safe when we're not watching it). If he wants nude photos of me, he can take photos of me. But also, got to be locked up.

Maybe that's too much info, but I want monogamy! A happy, respectful guy only needs the sights of his woman and sex from his woman. It's an UN-happy guy who looks to get his desires from another woman!

Answer 7

nope..... i've played in a band for a long time, and we've done gigs at strip clubs, and i met an adult starlet that was a really nice person, and she was gorgeous, and really fun to hang out with. she was really into me too, and i had to tell her that i just wouldnt be cool with it. theres no way i could deal with my girl going to work with some sweaty naked dude doing things to her. no chance.

Answer 8

Though they are very careful in that industry now, I think I would still be a little uneasy about it.

Answer 9

I wouldn't mind having a hot fcuk friend (did is spell that right?) from the porn industry. like come on, don't we all want to trade places with those actors while watching porn?

Answer 10

I think they hate themselves, have no morals, no self-esteem, no respect, don't believe in God or keeping his Commandments, etc., etc., etc. So no, I couldn't hang out with a person like that because I'm the exact opposite.