I want to give my boyfriend some information on pregnancy because he is really scared about all of it. He doesn't really know anything about it, and i don't know how to explain everything so he will stop being so freaked out by all of it.
2006-08-05 16:58:02 · 20 answers · asked by TooYoung4This 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I know im expecting and not him, but the whole thing scares him. I want him to realize whats actually going on so that he can calm down about it.
2006-08-05 17:01:17 · update #1
before you go telling me to get married i guess i should mention that im 16 and he's 17, so marriage isn't happening for a couple years.
2006-08-05 17:13:50 · update #2
Try finding a small book called "My Boys Can Swim!" It's funny and informational. Even when I'm not pregnant I end up reading it. Unfortunately, that book, and many others, are meant for husbands. Some websites like http://www.babyzone.com has information for dads that might help a little.
2006-08-05 17:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by criticalcatalyst 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First you should get married and provide a future and a good home for your child. But between now and then, there's a great book called "what to expect when expecting". Lots of information and you can follow along almost day by day.It tells you exactly where your baby should be as far as development and explains the terminology the Doctors use in a language anyone can understand.My favorite part was when I knew the baby could really hear my voice.She would get excited and kick like crazy when I would get home from work, I think she could hear my voice.Well congratulations and the best of luck to you.
2006-08-05 17:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by ronchoward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him not to be freaked out about it, we all were there once. Thank God I am here to answer you and not down the drain.
If you are pregnant, the best place to go for both of you is the OB-GYN MD that you had better be seeing. Having a child is a fantastic gift, a treasure you are given to take care of for just a short while before you let it go into the world. Just make sure you love your child and tell him or her that every chance you get. Relax dood, everybody was pregnant once, even you. Pro1fit1
2006-08-05 17:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by pro1fit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 23:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of books out there specifically for daddies to be. Not only giving them knowledge about what to expect through your pregnancy but how to take care of your little one after you have him/her. Try going to your local bookstore. My husband and I went to Half Price Books and found many. Good luck!
Oh and one more thing, since your boyfriend is new to this all you might want to check with the nearest hospital to see if they have crash courses for daddies to be.
2006-08-05 17:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if u have a regular ob/gyn, then take him to the next appointment with u and have the doctor explain everything to him. or if u have a computer, do some research online and have him read it. or or or..u could just explain everything if u knoe enuf. or, u can get weekly newsletters in ur emails or there are websites for preg women to talk. so there are all my ideas
2006-08-05 17:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a book called The Expectant Father...or something along those lines.
Father-to-be-book
My fiance' bought it so he could understand everything during our pregnancy.
it's pretty cheap and wll worth it. It takes you step by step in the pregnancy
2006-08-05 17:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You to can sign up for classes together through your health clinic or bring him to the library they have lots of books of pregnancy and parenting, doctors appointments. they have lots of resources to inform the male sex about the changes in a women when pregnant. Good luck with your new bundle of joy and good luck to your boyfriend its good to see that he really cares about you.
2006-08-05 17:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by kaytie_cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By a booked titled "What to Expect When You're Expecting'.
2006-08-05 17:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also suggest "What to Expect When You're Expecting". It's a great book that helped my husband and me.
2006-08-05 17:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by Skylark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋