There's little that get's me as angry as the thought of a wife cheating. Particularly a woman with children. I have female friends who have cheated on their husbands. I have been told of others. My stay-at-home-mom neighbor said to me recently, "you'd be surprisedhow much it happens." It absolutely turns my stomach. If I ever found out that my wife screwed around, just put me in jail because I will end up there at some point anyway.
On here, I have read comments from women who unappologetically confirm their infidelity. I don't get it. Don't give me this junk about "He doesn't show affection", "It's just not exciting anymore", "He works too much", "I just need the intimacy" All of it is simply selfishness at it's worst.
So, why? How long were you married before it happened? How did it start? How'd you hide it? Does he know? Did you admit to it?
I am most curious about how it started. I'm not a bad looking guy, and I haven't had anyone come on to me since being married.
2006-08-05 16:32:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My wife cheated on me for three years, Twenty years ago, I loved her so. I never asked anything about it, cause she'd only get angery, If I did. Slowly I put things together, and remember that she came home with lover's semen on her pubic area and lover's marks on her thighs. Now that she is departed . This is what I remember. Feel bad, but she didn't care how I hurt. .
2006-08-05 17:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by niceguy 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I flirted, but didn't cheat. I left my ex before I was with someone else, it's the right way to go about it.
Flirting is just fun, I flirt with my current hubby (and hopefully last one) just as much as I do with other people too.
I don't get it either, sorry I couldn't help... sometimes I've noticed that when I'm basically just being nice to a guy he thinks I'm coming on to them - I had to get rid of some guys I thought were friends becuz they tried to be inappropriate.
2006-08-05 16:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by hexus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a grip man... what others do is none of your business...
You sound upset about nobody coming on to you... very revealing.
When you think about what a person risks when they go outside the marriage for some sex... you can realize how bad things must have been for them to go to such lengths. Look at how much you don't know about such a situation... since you don't know the why's and wherefor's leave it alone....
I really have to wonder about your relationship as obsessed as you seem to be with the private lives of others...
2006-08-05 16:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is not complicated. Women are $luts. Women claim that they are seeking something that their husbands cannot give them -- I agree; it's infidelity. It's their pathetic attempt to bring excitement into their miserable lives because women are consumed by their emotions. It's always state of mind vs. state of being. There is no way a man can win with the set of out of this universe rules they live by.
2006-08-05 17:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
these are not lame excuses..they are real..men tend to neglect there wives..there isn`t anymore, baby your sexy, or honey your beautiful.. or flowers for no reason at all. or a phone call during the day to say i love you... or a kiss like they love us not a kiss like were married..i too have had an affair..after begging for attention..talking til i can`t talk anymore.. it may all sound selfish but women need to feel wanted and sexy, and they get that by having an affair..my husband doesn`t even talk.. he comes home eats and stares at the t.v. all night..wow!! exciting..you only live once and i felt as if i was dieing inside and needed someone to be my lover..selfish!! damn straight
2006-08-05 16:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Never have, never will. I have better self control and self respect than that. The surest way to destroy everything is to cheat.
2006-08-05 17:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's something u can't control, i tried everything under the sun and i think it came down to me not being able to sexually & mentally satisfy her.
2006-08-05 20:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋