2006-08-05 16:20:19 · 23 answers · asked by candice 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Unfortunately you can't.
2006-08-05 16:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by Schleppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you con not be sure of anyone,straight off the bat as it were, this i s where intuition comes into its own, you have to talk to someone find out what responsibilities, they have, and what they do, for a living, and if you can communicate in a way that you find satisfying,(this is the inner sense of your being) satisfaction not emotional, or sexual you have to use your own mentality well, however, there are exceptions, for instance if i go to a pub or a party, and the girls need someone safe to leave there hand bag phone and keys and drink, i am chosen, i am told i have an air of trustworthiness about me, you cannot really put this into words, it is a feeling people, get from my positive vibes, so if you take, all this in to account, you would have to look at this person in a different light, or are your warning bells ringing and you are not willing to listen, i hope this helps, love and light .
2006-08-06 09:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU could not possibly know that if you just met the person, don't take unnecessary risks. Whatever the situation is, be careful, you can be friendly but don't trust strangers dahhlhhing....it is just not a wise choice to make.
2006-08-05 23:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by mchlmybelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot. You have to know someone for quite some time before you know if you can trust them. People do not always tell you the truth if they think they can get what they want with a lie, only time will tell.
2006-08-06 04:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember someone saying " I would rather trust someone and be let down, rather than going through life never trusting anyone".
But no, of course you can't trust someone you have just met.
2006-08-06 03:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the eyes never lie they say and if the person is shifty or seems at first impression a bit crafty then you could exercise caution in your dealings with them till you really know them better. However NEVER judge a book by its cover so do not RUSH to pass judgement till you have properly gauged a person.
2006-08-05 23:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by fistfull-of-$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. It takes time and personal experience to establish trust. I always give people the benefit of the doubt though. It also depends on what you'd like to tust them with...picking up your mail while you're on vacation, or watching your children for a week.
2006-08-05 23:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instinct is a very powerful thing. It is like all the experience, knowledge, intellect etc. that you have at your disposal being focused at a point in time on one person. It can still let you down though, because that person may lie outside your experience, or you may not be sure.
2006-08-07 10:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell!! That person is still a "stranger"....and with strangers you never know if they're good or bad!! It's not what's on the outside that counts..but what's on the inside!! And without xray vision..you don't know what's inside...a good heart or a rotten one!!
2006-08-06 03:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not. Here's a site that might be of help about trust.
2006-08-05 23:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First: ask his/her friends you trust; Second: watch his/her eyes whiling talking with each other
2006-08-05 23:26:24 · answer #11 · answered by Gavin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋