i really want to get along with my mom but she thinks i hate her and do everything i can to hurt her. that used tobe true but i have changed. how can i prove it to her that i really do love her? what does she like to hear? HELP ME PLEASE!
2006-08-05 16:16:14 · 13 answers · asked by jnp 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
and i even offered to do all the dishes today and i did them
2006-08-05 16:59:30 · update #1
I agree with the patience, and time. You have to heal any wounds that have been opened. I was there with my mom for years (unfortunately) for crap I pulled as a kid/teen and the way I treated her and it took until my mid 20's and the birth of my son to reconcile the relationship...we are now as close as ever. Like great friends. Just don't give up, and don't revert back to any of the things you used to do that hurt your relationship to begin with..you only have 1 mom and she only has 1 you!!
2006-08-05 16:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love you, Mom is something that most mothers want to hear, but they also want to see actions that say this, like offering to help and seeing things that need to be done and doing them without being asked and not expecting anything in return for a good deed.
Try to talk to your mother and I wish you good luck.
2006-08-05 16:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to take it a moment at a time, in this moment do the next right thing. It can becoming overwhelming when you imagine saying and doing everything perfectly, just try and say and show kindness to your mother. The fact you are showing concern for her feelings shows your coming a long way.
2006-08-05 16:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by jpeacethree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you and your mom need some time to get out of the house and spend time together. Set a date with her and prove to her that you want to be around her
2006-08-05 16:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ask her to play a board game or cards. ask her for her opinion. write her a letter. Send her a card, get a picture of you and her when you were little or now and put it in a nice frame and give it to her. Pick her flowers, ask her if she wants to go on a walk. Spend time and if she tries to argue tell her that you dont want to argue you just want to spend time iwith her, and for you and her to get to know each other better. find something she is interested in and try doing that with her
2006-08-05 16:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by i love my sexy hubby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her let her know how you feel the more you talk the more she will know. When me and my step son don't get along if he just talks to me it doesn't even have to be about anything important just him taking the time to sit and talk then all the bad starts to go away. I love my talks with him and the more we talk the easier it gets.
2006-08-05 16:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by Debbie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K WELL I USED 2 B THAT WAY AND WELL JUST DONT BACK TLK AND FIGHT W/ HER AND WHEN U GET MADD JUST LET IT GO! I KNOW ITS HARD BUT I STILL STRUGGLE W/ IT NOW! BY THE WAY IM 15 SO JUST SAY IT IN YO HEAD WHAT U WANT 2 SAY OUT LOUD 2 HER BUT do not do faces!!! I KNOW I LOVE MY MOM 2 DEATH AND ITS HARD U WILL GET THREW IT!
2006-08-05 16:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by BEST IN U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to lunch and have a long serious talk. Apologize for your past actions and ask for another chance. Good luck.
2006-08-05 16:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize for your past behavior,show her in special ways that you have changed..actions speak louder than words..and then tell her you will always love her.
2006-08-05 16:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by kaseygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you love her and thank her for all that she has done. keep this in mind: actions speak louder than words.
2006-08-05 16:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by krystal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋