he loves me sooo much i am sure ,but he wants me to wait for some stupid reasons concerning his career. this might take him 2 or 3 years to think about marriage... yes to (think)
i want to have a family and kids i am not so young to wait for one more year
2006-08-05 16:06:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am a male and have a little insite on this. I am willing to bet he is willing to live with you for the rest of his life and I'm sure he would be very happy as well. But you know what is going on in his and your lifes and do you think he is just stalling or really needs the time to get setup in life. Is this something that is really importine to him. If so don't push him and just wait him out. Or what is wrong with just living together. If you have kids they can still have his last name married or not. Just how you do it on the paper work when the child is born.
If you think he is just stalling you should start pulling away and you will notice he will start trying to get closer. It is a man thing they want what ever it is they are about to lose. You will notice how much he changes trying to get you back and then you can bring up the marrage thing again. He will then agree because he would do what ever it takes to keep you. But that is still kinda a low thing to do but it is your life. So live it how ever you feel you need to.
2006-08-05 16:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make a man more eager to get married. It will happen when he is good and ready. If you are in a hurry to get married, you will have to look for someone else.
He has plans for his career. He knows about how long it will take to get where he feels he can get married. In the mean time you can stick with him and help him plan.
Think about it. Are you willing to wait for him? You know that nagging him about marriage will not work, so are you willing to move on without him? It's your decision.
2006-08-06 00:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey why dont you take a break from him?Then he will be calling back and he will be back with u with a ring in his hand.See the only way a person realises another person;s value in life is when the other person is not there. until you are with him he will not know your value once you take a break from him for some time he will be asking u to come back.at that time his career will not matter to him as you will be very important to him at that moment.
2006-08-06 00:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish people would stop asking this question.
You can't. He'll decide he wants to when he wants to and not on your terms or time.
2006-08-06 00:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't. if you were to turn him more eager, he wouldn't be happy about it. you have to let time sort this out. don't push it.
2006-08-05 23:15:15 · answer #5 · answered by glamr216 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't force anyone to get into something they don't want. the reprecussion is very high.
2006-08-05 23:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and find someone ready to commit
2006-08-05 23:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by Ice Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋