My best friend used to be a really nice person, she was always herself and funny and we used to have such a great time together. Now I'm really upset with her but I always pretend that everything's great and I'm not mad. She makes comments about my parents, my brother, and my cousins that are REALLY disrespectful and one time she even made my cousin cry and I told her to stop and she rolled her eyes and said he deserved it. I feel like that it's my family she's talking about, and that I never say anything bad about HER family! She doesn't have any respect for my or anyone's feelings, at least that's what it feels like. She is getting really rude. I don't know what to do. Please help.!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-05 15:14:31 · 10 answers · asked by Rachael 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its obvious she has changed. The person she used to be was a true friend but the new person isnt. She obviously has no respect for you or your friends and I always say and friendship is nothing without respect. You need to talk to her about the changes she has been through and how you dont like the new her. Maybe then she'll open her eyes. If you dont like that idea then i say just let her go as a friend because you deserve a real friend. You deserve better. Dont let her continue this emotional abuse. Find something better.
~Rickeisha
2006-08-05 15:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by Rickeisha AKA Keisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 23:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
About your friend ................ Look this is exactly what I would do.!!! First off STOP pretending, (That's just as messed up as what she is doing . )If you're pissed off tell her and don't hold back how you feel especially wen it comes too your family.. Friends come and go .But your family is forever .No about her disrespecting family >That's low and sorry in my eyes ...If she is a true Friend Then sit her down and have her put herself in your shoes then just maybe she might understand.But if she blows you off and does it again .I'D FIND ME ANOTHER FRIEND
2006-08-05 15:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by featherwoodprinces 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but if she can't respect your family then she obviously doesn;'t respect you...Stop bringing her around your family if you still want to hang with her it's your choice...if it were me I'd give her the ultimatum knock it off or take a hike...
2006-08-05 15:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to set boundries with her in regards to her behavior. If she won't change find a nother friend. No one has to tolerate abuse and that is what it is. You need to talk to her to find out what is bothering her, sounds like she may be having trouble at home and taking it out on your family because she is angry.
2006-08-05 15:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she hasn't been that great of a friend. She wouldn't be a loss. Let her know how you feel, just like you did here.
2006-08-05 15:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would tell someone about it. if you REALLY have a problem with talking to her YOURSELF, then tell your parents what she says.
if she ever says something like that again, tell her "hey cut it out" or something like that. or just talk to her about it.
2006-08-05 15:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jordan S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this girl isnt your friend. find someone who can respect you and your family.
2006-08-05 16:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by bigmommy240 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she is not interested in you and hurts your feelings everytime ithink you should not be her friend.
2006-08-05 15:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by cris 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being her friend apparently she isn't yours anymore.....
2006-08-05 15:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by lvillejj 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋