So how do you forget?

Question

How to forget the woman you love?
When you see another beautiful woman, you think of her.
When you look into a woman's eyes, you think of her, her beautiful black eyes, and how your soul would melt into them, like slipping into dark wonderous pools. Touching each's heart and soul.
When you close you eyes, your heart returns to her?
So how do you let go of love when it just doesn't seem to let go of you?
Relationships have come and gone.
My heart is still with her.
I have had many relationships before and after her, but she is the only one I have ever loved.
I guess I have loved, still love her. If she loved me as much we would be together, but I am alone.
So I need to not love, to forget her, in the hope that someone is strong enough to fill this hole in my heart.
But I fear that love is eternal, and hence so will be my pain.

Answer 1

When you feel you've lost that "one" woman:

1) Just because the person you love doesn't return your affection, that does not mean your love for them is still not real and good.

2) In rare circumstances, there might be cases where a person hides their love for you, or states they hate you, and they still truly love you. But I really don't know whether that is true, and I'm still seeking better wisdom on this topic.

3) If you are in love with someone who hides or denies their love for you, the answer is NOT necessarily to try to stop loving them or to deny you still care for them.- no matter how much you perceive a) their absence or b) their misconceptions and misrepresentations of you - hurt you.

4) You will be tempted to be angry and to hate back at them, but consider never stopping loving them.

Instead, to the degree you feel her loss, work to reach out and show love to others. There are so many people who will benefit from your intelligent, loving actions. If you look consistently and carefully, you will find people who reciprocate in new, equal, and unique ways. Make your work to "find & share love" an artform. Art is sometimes borne out of suffering, unfair treatment, empathy, and loss. And it is often created out of the exceptions to the broadly agreed upon rules.

I wish you happiness. You sound like you feel trapped in a cycle, feeling you have lost your one true love or soulmate. Consider this: Just as there is probably not one answer to solve all of your questions, there probably is not just one person to meet all your interests.

To twist the Rolling Stones - You can't always get what you want, but if you try new and different things, you just might find other people to meet your different needs.

You can't control her, but you can choose whether to you will love always.

Answer 2

Forgiveness is well bit I simply forgive and sick not ever act the equal round them my mother used to hit ne while I used to be three and I do not believe her I do something at the back of her again so I simply forgive however I additionally omit!

Answer 3

You CAN move on ...... But you will NEVER forget :-s