Their is this man that I work with and he has to be about 40 years older than me and he tried hitting on me quite some time ago and I told him I couldn't talk to him like that because he is married and I know some of his family members. Before he tried hitting on me I always looked to him as like father figure because he is such a sweet man and loving and always thinking of others. Well every now and then I run into some financial difficulties and need to borrow money from him, I ALWAYS pay him back right away as soon as I get paid. Am I wrong for borrowing money from him seeing that he once tried to hit on me?
2006-08-05 14:43:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This will probably be my simplest answer of the night:
No! and My God no!
Avoid flirting with him, and don't play his feelings. You are on solid moral ground.
2006-08-05 14:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most nice looking women with wealthy men are just prostitutes under a different name which would be called a "wife".
Don't try and pretend. If the woman nice looking and the guy is average no matter if they are the same age or she is young... the trade becomes SECURITY from him traded for HER body from her.
...but I am all for it. Hey, you can let a poor guy use you for fun or a rich guy use you for fun and at least with the rich guy you have a nice place to live, a lot less worries, less of a chance of being getting a beatin' for a loser down on life and you can go shoppin'
POWER TO YOU CUTE LADIES !!!
Sorry to you ugly ladies... life is tough and you are going to live a hard life just cause you don't look pretty enough. You know it is true.
2006-08-05 21:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by CTM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...i dont think so since u pay him back. But if u really dont want anything to do with him then u need to stop providing an avenue of communication ie borrowing money from him...just try to keep away from him as much as u can.
2006-08-05 21:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by 98#$%7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can ignore the fact that he was testing the water, to see what he could get away with, then go ahead. Pay it back, and he has no reason to bother you. If he tries again, then ignore the heck out of him. You are smart to stay away from a married man, even if he is your own age.
2006-08-05 21:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see why you should feel bad, your not in a relashionship with him. But are you sure he was "hitting on you" or just being overly friendly. Maybe he thiks of as family and just got a little to close:( or he could just be a cheating pig to ;)
2006-08-05 21:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by chicata25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't borrow money from a sugar daddy. You don't pay sugar daddies back. You have nothing to feel guilty about unless you have not been paying him back.
2006-08-05 21:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem you are in a relationship with him and he is a co-worker. But I would be care full of owing him and he want to collect the interest some day.
2006-08-05 21:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! He may see it as blackmail. You can't have a healthy normal friendship with him. He wanted to take advantage of you, but you turned him down. No, you are taking advantage of HIM.
Mixed signals? Loud ones. Stop it.
2006-08-05 21:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by Love2Sew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you allready know the answer, YES your wrong surely you have family why dont you lend money from them instead of getting involved with this man,
2006-08-05 21:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are taking advantage of this older, wiser man. Shame on you.
2006-08-05 21:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋