Ok ... I have 9 people living in my house. My 'rents and my brother and sister. And then who my sisters married too and their kids. And everyday Im stuck baby sitting their kids. and I just cant take it anymore its to the point where Im gonna leave my house and them here by themselfs. theyre driving me insane. They dont listen to anyone they should but everyone they shouldnt. and It gets so bad sometime I break down and cry. I dont knw what to do. I may just kill myself
2006-08-05 14:41:47 · 18 answers · asked by its_alyssalea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im 13 ... I cant move out. Im not the married one .. My sister is
2006-08-05 14:47:24 · update #1
Dear Alyssa,
Calm down and listen to me please. You are a young and good person with a whole life to live. I know things suck right now BUT the will change. Please do this and you will feel better. There are people who can help you.
PLEASE DON'T KILL YOURSELF. If you are in crisis call:
1 800-273-TALK (8255) now and tell them you feel bad. Go somewhere and use a public phone.
You can call this number on Monday and talk to them if you are in the USA about the voices you hear and the sadness.
They are available weekdays 8:30 a.m. to 12:00 a.m. EST to answer your mental health questions.
(800) 789-2647
(866) 889-2647 (tdd)
I wish you peace.
Ouros(Randall)
2006-08-05 15:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ouros 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have three kids of my own, I am 35 years old and I am getting sick of my own kids let alone someone elses. You need to stand up for yourself and demand that people take care of THEIR OWN kids. Baby sitting is a job and you are not a SLAVE. If your family won't support you, get help from your nearest social worker...school guidance counselor..whatever.
Taking care of kids...even a few is the hardest job there is and very easy to burn out on. Because there are so many social problems in the world ...especially with people not taking care of their kids these days the people who can help you might be overwhelmed..be persistent...do alot of research and don't give up on yourself. When you get older you will realize that your childhood or youth or teenage years if bad (like mine was) can be just a bad dream and there can be alot of great years out there for you. The world is a huge place and you can escape any current condition with time and help.
IT is not your fault, you are not required to take care of any kids ot your own. If you get away and feel better and want to help later that is great, but then it should be ON YOUR TERMS...Taking care of someone else's kids is a JOB and you are being treated as A SLAVE if you are not working a job on your terms.
God Bless You and seek out help....don't give up on yourself...your life is so worth it...believe me I almost killed myself when I was 15 and every year later for the next 15 kept getting better and better!
Peace and Love!
2006-08-05 14:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tom B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holly crap. I feel so bad for you . But don't go killling anything, not even yourself. Go somewhere and sit. Just leave and go to a park or something, or go sit like on the side of the house. Just go somewhere, or have a "spot" where you can go and just be alone. Try joining some extra cirricular activities that will occupy your time and give you an excuse to not be there to babysit.
2006-08-05 14:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
families that are that big usually have a lot of problems like you have, but remember that sooner or latter things change, and usually for the better, at least you are not alone, and maybe they dont show it but I'm sure they care about you a lot so stick arround and see what happens in the near future, if it continues to be upsetting then look for a roomate to share an apartment you can afford, dont kill yourself you are too important to let yourself down.
2006-08-05 14:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is completely understandable. I don't think I could handle that many people
you do have options however.
Is the house yours? In your name? Is it paid off?
What you could do is make sure you get rent payments from everyone and then move out into your own place. Lots of people do that. It's private and you won't have to worry.
Don't do anything rash to yourself. Life is fun of options, just don't be afraid to take them
2006-08-05 14:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Karce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a counselor at school. Child Protective Services should be contacted. There are several laws being broken here including residential zoning. Don't give up. Get help.
2006-08-05 14:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make them listen they arent your kids and not your problem if 18 move out now if under do you have grandparents great listener if they dont live there to and have room ask to stay there for a while for a break goodluck the world needs you dont give up
2006-08-05 14:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by edrobel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go. Are you being paid or otherwise compensated to babysit?? You can offer advice if asked however,their lives are not your life unless you make it so. Are you old enough to find your own place or roommate?? Is there a place where you can go to take a break?? Are you depressed?? Talk to your doctor. You are not alone.Peace be with you.
2006-08-05 14:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by wildrover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job first, get some money, get help from the government, and move to a cheap house in which the rent is low.
2006-08-05 14:45:54 · answer #9 · answered by Ivan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you get help because you end your life will not make them listen go outside the home and find a counselor at health clinic youth group school starts soon you will be out if old enough get a job but get some outside help GOOD LUCK
2006-08-05 14:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋