i have asked alot of questions hoping i would get a good response to the more serious questions i asked.Although you can quickly go and look over my questions you could see i am very troubled and i get the feeling after seeing a question about depression moments ago that i am going to end this with suicide.Why should i go on unhappy in a world when i cant get any attention from anyone to help me with problems i just dont have the capacity to deal with.
I have cried myself to sleep to many a night and i dont belive that i can go on.
i have lost all respect for who i am and i dont understand myself
.posting an add on this website made me fall in my already groundless life and i really really dont see how i can go on and live my dreams unless i have the confidence to love and be loved
http://www.gumtree.com/london/63/5413763.html
2006-08-05 14:41:36 · 11 answers · asked by ♥The♥ Bearded Cheerleader 3 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
I think you should put your concerns about your weight and shape on the back burner for a while and instead try and get some help with the social isolation issue. Your doctor SHOULD be able to put you in touch with someone who can set you up with a support worker who, for you, I think would be a lifeline. You shouldn't expect a support worker to perform miracles but they give people a touchstone to reality and reason that ebbs away when you isolate yourself. I can't give you any answers to your problems because I don't know you but a support worker could get to know you and would have professional ideas of how to go about helping you keep your chin up and tackle your problems. Your depression needs to be addressed more urgently than your physical state and that's what you should be taking to the doctor.
You're obviously quite an intelligent and articulate person so bear that in mind and consider whether you may be convincing yourself too cleverly that your problems are insurmountable. That's depression at work.
2006-08-05 15:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by C Lights 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, never take a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Second, see a doctor to get diagnosed as to what medication may help.
Third, let me offer an interim suggestion.
Sun and run.
You may have a seasonal affectiveness disorder, as you just don't get enough sunlight.
Exercise also helps in the releasing of endorphins.
Run a mile or so five days a week. You may get an elevated mood.
But you have to commit to this. Only you can decide not to allow yourself to be depressed.
2006-08-05 14:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today I realised that I hate myself so much that if I ever did find true love I would destroy that happiness just to punish myself. Realising this has made me realise I shall be alone forever.
I would reccomend you go out nad have fun more often. I have avoided suicide by being to busy having fun all the time. Go on holiday and buy a cat (or dog, or chimp or whatever), eat a cake and dance to a jolly tune. Make each crappy moment a fun distraction and you have less time to remember how miserable you feel.
2006-08-05 14:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by monkeymanelvis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look mate, stop sulking and get a diet. I am 25 stone and I trying my damdest to diet but I aint complaining to anyone. Once I decided that the only person who could help me was me I got a lot of confidence back. I was 27 stone. I aint just been there and bought the t-shirt, I am there, where you are. Good Luck
2006-08-05 14:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by walking a few minutes a day. Doing household chores uses up calories too....tidy up your house and vacuum!!! Then walk some more.
After that you'll be ready to join a gym. I used to hate even the word gym...until I joined one and started going 3 - 4 times a week. You feel great afterwards and less tired, fitter and more energetic! Please try it if you can....only YOU can do this for yourself!.
2006-08-05 15:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by Surething 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you feel the way you do. you are not that big. please dont harm yourself. go see a doctor for some help. i will talk to you on I'm if you want. i don't like to see people hurting. first thing you need to do is boost your self esteem
2006-08-05 14:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by ♥BUD or BUD LIGHT♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like to talk to some people who have been through this sort of situation and found their resolution for it?
2006-08-05 15:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by mrcricket1932 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I have sympathy for your situation ,,you are looking in the wrong place if you beleive the help you need is from a stranger online, see your own doctor as soon as you can please.
2006-08-05 14:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by India 55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depression is a really bad thing, you will see the light and come out of it, trust me you will.
2006-08-05 15:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by jingles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why haven't you seen a doctor about this?
He/she can help you more than any of us here can.
2006-08-05 15:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by PrincipessaLHO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋