Me and him talk alot on the phone, we are just friends..and we have done nothing wrong. We both like each other very much, and we are waiting to actually date until I turn 18. But my question is, is it ok to like him?
2006-08-05 14:32:47 · 28 answers · asked by sugabear 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ok..we have never had sex!..so he cant go to jail for "raping" me!
2006-08-05 14:39:40 · update #1
we both understand that we have to wait..and we KNOW that sex is out of the picture..we have a great relationship...and he is willing to wait..i know that might sound hard to believe but if you knew him, and the friend that "introduced" us together..u would understand...my friend( shes 15)knew him in high school and she would have NEVER made this "connection" with him and me, if she didn't trust him, he isnt like any other 19 year old guy!
2006-08-05 15:14:00 · update #2
o..i know he maybe will have sex in the 3/4 years that we have to wait. i told him that was ok, because hes a human being/guy!..all we are, are friends that flirt alot!!..but me and him have come to an agrement that we can see other people and in his case, possible sleep with other people..(NOT ME..just him)...but really, i mean..our situation is very hard to explain, but he wants me and i want him..its just..we have to wait to actually have eachother :(
2006-08-05 15:30:54 · update #3
By the time you are 18, he will have moved on.
Currently, you are jail-bait for this young man.
You both Need to get friends your own age
2006-08-05 14:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by G. M. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you genuinely like a person, it cannot be wrong...its a natural emotion. Actually your maturity levels are about the same. What would definitely be considered wrong (for sure by your parents...and the law) would be for you guys to have sex. It would surely be a feather in your cap if you can keep it platonic and abstain from sex. Not doing so would conjure a lot of responsibilities that a 15 yr old is not ready for.
And...head him in the direction of the slammer!
2006-08-05 14:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to like him, but 3-4 years is a long time to wait for someone when you can be going out with guys your age.
2006-08-05 14:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite alright to like him... But when you are 18 he'll be 22, that's an awful lot of devotion. Reality will set in in either case and perhaps focusing on just being friends for now and not worrying about what may be is the best thing.
2006-08-05 14:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by jaks_studio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this when u turn 18 he will be 22. what can a 22 y-old men do for u?? not a thing but have sex with u. i hope that you will think about this. just friends turn in to we just have SEX. that is not good at all.
2006-08-05 16:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why a 19 yo would be interested in a 14 yo. There is something very wrong there. Why isn't he with women his age? It sounds like he has a thing about little girls. Beware and talk to your Mom about this.
2006-08-05 14:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey its normal. In fact I tend to date older guys too. When I was 15 I dated a 24 year old. But just remember... if you two do anything would the feelings still be the same? Would you still want to be his friend? Would he still want to be your's?
2006-08-05 14:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by msteelers2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not nothing with it . but I would keep being just friends until you turn 18. that way you know he was really interested in you . If he does not stay around for you then you don't have nothing to regret in the future. usually guys that age are after sex when they are hanging around young girls your age.
2006-08-05 14:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it's normal for boys/girls to have crushes on people older than them, but for a 19 yr old to like a 14 yr old? That is sick. There's a reason that there is a law against it. You are probably 'dating' a future child predator, if he's not already.
2006-08-05 14:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i date older guys around 19 and im 15 but thats only cuz im very mature and before they meet me they think im in college, but im not then once they realize my age theyre like nah never mind, then they just want to be friends..but the more we hang out the more they like me soo then after awile they kinda just bipass the age difference...its not illegal if your parent agrees and you are not having sexual conatct..(and who says they have to know you are having sexual conatct lol) i dat from 16 -21 and no older or younger..my sister was 16 when she met a guy that was 21 and now they are getting married but theve never had sex they are HARDCORE christians.(shes in collgege to be a youth pastor) and my other sis is 17 now and is dating a guy in the military(right now iraq)and he just proposed and is 22
2006-08-05 14:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by +Whoa, its the 5-0+ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋