I was with someone whom I haven't heard from since last month. Just out of the blue he disappeared.I don't know why.I haven't gotten an answer on his phone and decided he was not into me anymore. But before he disappeared I started talking to his brother on a *friendly* basis.Just making silly jokes and asking how he is healing after his accident which nearly killed him in June.Just decent conversations.Then his brother went AWOL who knows where and right now I am starting to recall he wanted to go to the mountains with his kids before he takes them back to Texas and started to wonder if that was his excuse for his absence or if it was over.But tonight his brother started talking sex with me and I started to feel weird and told him he should hold off that cause it has already gotten him in trouble he asked why and I said cause he was already going to be a dad.He didn't know I knew that and I know he doesn't want to be a dad.He then logged out.How the hell do I get out of this mess ?
2006-08-05 14:15:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let's clear this up since people can't read. I had sex with neither brother for starters. The one I liked vanished the other brother mails me everyday. He's going to be a father. I don't want to date neither. Just be friends
2006-08-05 14:30:17 · update #1
good luck
2006-08-05 14:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 4⤋
well..i don't think u r in amess...maybe the man doesn't want to be adad but u didn't tell him anything wrong..and tell u what if he began this again u tell him the same thing..because when u do that u enlight him with the suitable thing..that he should give up his old life and be aware of his responsibillity...next time u talk to him...try to mention some situations about families u know and how worm is it...then mention some cute details about his babies...did they talk...did they take their first step...did they go to the bathroom yet...things like that...make him love the kids...believe me...what ever answers u get...that's what u reaaaaaally should do !!!!
2006-08-05 14:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by doctor^love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what mess? just dont have sex w/ him& find more worthy ppl to be 'friends' with. now... how am i gonna pay the stack of bills on my counter? oh yeah i need gas money too.my husband was in a wreck today & my 3 yr old most likely has sleep apnea --- that is just a little of my mess... there is more but you probably would not believe me
2006-08-05 14:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by CoC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the truth so you don't have to get out of anything. He should be the one justifying his words and actions. Don't worry about it. Either he is really interested in you or he is just being irresponsible (if he is still with the pregnant girl).
I'd run away if I were you.
2006-08-05 14:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop talking to these guys. they seem like a couple of losers anyway. one of them just falls off the face of the earth after getting it on with you and the other brother wants to get it on with you yet he doesn't want to be responsible and take care of the MESS HE MADE? you don't need that kinda drama in your life. RUN!
2006-08-05 14:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep away from these brothers. They are bad news and big trouble. Find a guy who is decent and respects you.
2006-08-05 14:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first in for most , you should have let him tell you that not the other way around. let him com down then try to talk to him. be side if he's not ready to be a farhter may be you should try to help him not make it harder for him by what you just sayed to him . he have to take respectable to the baby that's on the way.
2006-08-05 14:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by sheena w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are brothers...he prob knew you were talking to him all along and used that for his excuse to split ..
Ps. maybe stay away from both
2006-08-05 14:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by barbiesworldinsc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what the brother did just disappear
2006-08-05 14:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EMAIL HIM AND TELL HIM THAT YOU WERE'NT TRYING TO HURT HIS FEELINGS, YOU JUST WANT HIM TO DO THE RESPONSIBLE THING AND DEAL WITH THIS OTHER SITUATION WHATEVER THAT ENTAILS AND THEN MAYBE YOU GUYS COULD SEE WHERE THINGS GO.
2006-08-05 14:21:15 · answer #10 · answered by Work-N-Hrd-2-Mk-It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them both alone
2006-08-05 14:19:16 · answer #11 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋