There is a girl at school who is a lesbian, and for some reason she thinks that I am too. I just found out that she was about a month ago. Me and her had been hanging out alot and were pretty good friends. But one day, I was sitting in her room with her listening to music, and she leaned over and tried to kiss me. I didn't know what was going on! I jumped up and yelled, "What the hell are you doing?!" She started crying and said, "Don't you feel the chemestry?" I just kind of looked at her. I was literally scared! lol! I walked 10 miles back to my house that night. Ever since then, she has been calling my phone one call right after the other. Then, if she can't get ahold of me on my phone, she calls my dad's. If she can't get ahold of me on that phone, she calls my mom's!My dad has even picked up a few times and said, "Look, she isn't like you. Stop CALLING!" She has even left me messages saying that she saw me with my boyfriend and that she is getting tired of me cheating on her! HUH?
2006-08-05 13:57:54 · 14 answers · asked by KMJ Loves SRB 4 Ever ~N~ Always! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like she already knows how you feel. Your father have told her and your unanswered phone calls have let her know. The only thing that I can suggest to you is to let her know that she is on the borderline of getting a restraining order put out on her. Tell her that you are stickly dickly and there is no way in hell that you want to be with a woman. Because at this time there is no way that you guys can even be friends. Take this serious I just had a friend go through this with a woman and she ended up having to get a restraining order put out on this girl because she just could not take no for an answer. SO PLEASE PROTECT YOURSELF AND LET YOUR BOYFRIEND KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON.
2006-08-05 14:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by princess4u 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her straight out. Say, "Look, I'm sorry you feel this way, but I'm not into girls. We don't have the kind of relationship you want, and we never will." Make it clear that her advances are hurting your friendship, and perhaps she'll back down. If not, ask her how she'd feel if a guy tried to kiss her against her will, and explain that you feel the same way.
2006-08-05 14:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i understand how u must be felling but dont despair.go and see her and talk to her by telling her that u really r not a lesbian,that u only like her as a frnd n nothing else. tell her that she has to stop calling u if thats what u want n if she really cares about u then she must respect that.tell her that u have a new frnd frm aust,sydney whos name is sarah who really would love to meet her n talk to her,possible giver what she needs n wants frm u.my email is:sarahkamal2003@yahoo.com.au if nothing works get a restrained order so she does not bother u,i really would love to hear frm her,since iam looking for a special frnd.
2006-08-05 14:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gee, it was just getting interesting too. I would guess that you experimented with her and she's addicted to you.The best part of any person is the top of their head uno. She'll find someone else soon enough. You might try a restraining order though.
2006-08-05 14:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could steer her to the local Gay,Lesbian, Bi sexual and Transgendered gathering place. If that doesn't work you may have to take stronger action i.e. restraining order. I am praying for you both.Have you actually told her that you are not interested in her in that way??? Peace.
2006-08-05 14:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by wildrover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 23:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by derival 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have your parents talk to her parents. If it doesn't stop, you can go legal on her. It is the only thing that you can do
obviously, this child has issues!
2006-08-05 14:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by munznyc2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put a restraining order on her
2006-08-05 19:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by ~~~~~~~~ ~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs more help than you can give her. Big time help. Can you tip off the school counselor?
2006-08-05 14:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my god, just talk to her, have your boyfriend talk to her, and tell her that you are not like her, and to stop bothering you......that is an amazing story though!! jaja
2006-08-05 14:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by Ramiro S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋