my sister treats my parents like dirt and she gets everything just recently my mom got her a job me and my other sister are alaways helping them clean the house but my older sister won't do anything so me and my younger sister have to clean up after her what should i do
2006-08-05 12:44:36 · 10 answers · asked by lori77562 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Communication. talk to them . tell them you are being treated like a no body and you and your sister feel left out and feel not loved .
2006-08-05 12:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a parent with three kids and the youngest of five I have went through this my entire life. I felt like my mom was always there for my sisters and not not me and now my oldest feels like we are always doing for her brother and sister and not her. There is no easy solution here. The first thing you have got to do is talk to your parents without accusing them or getting upset. Just ask them why they don't help you to get a job or ask her to help out around the house, chances are your parents know you are the more responsible of the kids and don't have to worry about you making it. You and the other sister just keep doing what you are only do it without being asked or told to do so, if your sister leaves a mess and won't clean it up it isn't your place to clean up after her let her do it. I am sure your parents aren't meaning to shut you out this way but the ones that are silent often do get over looked and if you don't speak up nothing will change.
2006-08-05 19:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's important to help your parents. You and your other sister are good people.
I suggest talking to your parents. Remind them that you, too, are capable of treating them like your older sister does but that you want their attention because you're trying to be helpful and good NOT because you can be mean to them. Remind them that ALL children need positive attention, not just the troublemakers and that you and your sister need their positive attention now, BEFORE you start acting out to get it.
2006-08-05 19:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by Hidden .38 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean and do somthing without bein told to do it. Like clean your room and do the dishes act extra nice and if that does not work i always go shoping with my mom thats how we bond. Or just ask for some time with one of them or take up a sport so that they can come see you play.
2006-08-05 19:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its a very difficult issue.I think you shoud talk to ur parents and ask them straight and open - is there something going on? i think it is ur parents mistake - to make this difference between kids. Talk to them urgently...
2006-08-05 19:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by Nt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your parents and you have to keep a clean service business . YOU ARE ALWAYS CLEANING SOMETHING. IT'S A GOOD BUSINESS I THINK IT WORKS.
2006-08-05 19:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by Gisele d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh.....treat your parents like dirt, and don't do any cleaning???
2006-08-05 19:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw some raw eggs around and just leave them there.
Cluck Cluck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Tall chickens don't lie.
2006-08-05 19:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Burn down the house.
2006-08-05 19:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by I might know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get arrested...I bet they notice then
2006-08-05 19:48:26 · answer #10 · answered by Y-Knot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋