My boyfriend(black) said to me that he likes blond girls and that he will leave me for a white girl. I love him so I tried to look like a white girl. What can I do?
2006-08-05 12:39:29 · 24 answers · asked by jojo 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Are you white???? If not, your not going to become white, unless you ask micheal jacko to tell you what he did to make himself white. You need to be happy with how you are. If ylur boyfriend cant love you then, then he isnt right for you. What ever you do, dont go on Jerry Springer.
2006-08-06 06:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by johnnydeppluvaa 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your avatar is pretty. Why do you want someone that threatens you he'll leave if you don't change your appearance? I understand you like him and it is hard to walk away from something that you like but you need to take a look at whats best for you! There are so many men out there that will love everything about you and not ask you to change. He doesn't really care for you if he wants you to do this. Please reconsider!
2006-08-05 19:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by mageta8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is saying things like that to you, YOU should dump him AS SOON AS POSSIBLE! Your man shouldn't be threatning to leave you if you don't change. And you CAN"T change yourself JUST to please him. It won't make you happy, and you will be devastated in the long run when he leaves you to screw a hot blonde that walks past him. DUMP HIM FOR YOUR OWN GOOD! Good Luck!
2006-08-05 19:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM*
If a guy ever told me I should basically change the way I look for him I would tell him to 'kiss my a.s.s.' Everyone is beautiful in their own-
My advice:Get a new boyfriend and go back to your "black" self*
2006-08-05 20:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRRRRRRRRRRL, THAT IS SAD! U SHOULD BE PROUD.. TRYNA LOOK LIKE A WHITE GIRL..??WTF??? WHY WOULD U EVEN WANT TO? EITHER WAY, U R BLACK AND U CANT CHANGE IT NOT EVEN WITH BLONDE HAIR, EYE CONTACTS OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT .LEAVE YOUR DUMASS BF WHO OBVIOUSLY IS ALSO DISSATISFIED BEING BLACK...THAT IS CRAP!
2006-08-05 21:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by NiseyG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who loves you as well but he has to love you for the black girl that you are.
2006-08-05 19:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by Future Mrs. Jarvis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure ur pretty. But real hair color is better, NATURAL!!! U should never be with someone b/c they don't like ur looks that is not right ur pretty and u can find a nice guy that likes u for u DUMP HIM!!!!
2006-08-05 19:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by gurlfriin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change yourself for anyone because your opinion is the only one that matters. True beauty comes from within which is obviously something your guy lacks. You should drop him.
2006-08-05 19:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by Trice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he isnt willing to appreciate what he has...he doesnt deserve you. you can do soooo much better than that. dump his a**. it may be hard...but in the long run, you will be better off. trust me.
you need a guy that loves you for who you are and doesnt threaten to break up if you dont change something.
2006-08-05 19:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awe!! don't let any guy make you feel insecure about your self,
their NOT worth it. you deserve someone better than that. your beautifull the way you are!! you just need to find someone who loves you, for you. just let him go, i know it's hard when you think you love somebody, but don't think that you can't find anybody else either.
2006-08-05 19:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋