He is going to prison for hurting me pretty bad. We have kids and I told him that I did not want to be with him any more, but I don't think he gets it. HELP!!
2006-08-05 12:25:15 · 16 answers · asked by raquelshappy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I failed to let you all know my abuser is in there for kidnapping me. Oh and he he has tried to kill me five times already. I just left in May. I'm scared.
2006-08-05 13:26:45 · update #1
That's awful, I'm very sorry to hear this has happened to you! Please...Every time that phone rings, think of your children. It sounds like you have been through a lot. Your kids need you to be strong. So you need to STOP answering those calls. The sooner you stop, the sooner he stops calling. If he keeps calling, do something that will take your mind off the call. You need to give yourself a new start on life. For you and your kids. The sooner you let go, the sooner your heart will begin to heal. It won't be easy, it just takes time. So what better time than to start now. Good luck...:)
2006-08-05 12:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a key and tell him the door is closed, other wise hang up the phone every time he call. Get a restraining order against him, move and don't tell anyone you new address, phone number or anything. Leave all ties wondering where you are. Get soul custody of the kids, and move on. He is an abuser and that is not love. He need professional help. One day you will be dead if you don't stop talking to him. If he writes, write return to sender on the mail he sends you. RUN, RUN, RUN.
2006-08-05 12:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by crafty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can contact the prison and have your phone number blocked so he cant call you anymore. I think if I were you Id have a plan made for moving before he ever gets out though because hes going to be one mad hombre. Good luck
2006-08-05 13:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude or anything, but you know if you really dont want to be with him, why are you accepting his calls? If you are serious about starting over with your kids then do it. As long as you keep in touch with him you are only giving him hope of the both of you getting back together. been there done that . GET YOUR NUMBER CHANGED.
2006-08-05 12:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by trini_wife_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number and make it private so there is no way for him to find it. Also you can get a court order against him preventing him from calling you or harassing you. Stop him now before he gets out of control and hurts you bad.
2006-08-05 12:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number and make sure it is unlisted. When someone calls from jail they usually have to call collect, dont accept the charges or just keep hanging up. He will eventually get the picture.
2006-08-05 12:42:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your number!!!!!!! Get a private listing!!!!
Only give it to the right authorities to contact you over his visitation of the the kids. Unless you can get the authorities to stop his visitation all together.
File for a divorce and have them stipulate that only a authority figure can contact you over anything to do with the kids visitation rights.
And then the bull should stop.
2006-08-05 13:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by rockn75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop accepting his calls! He's in jail? Call the jail and tell them he's harrassing you. Change your number. Run like the wind! You've got kids to protect, if you can't think of anything else think of them, this isn't their fault and you're supposed to be their biggest protector. Good luck and peace.
2006-08-05 12:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by Fritzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be having the best time of your time...you should thank god you are one of the lucky ones that does not have to worry about him knocking on your door..Call the jail or prison and have your # blocked..if you want to talk to him write him a letter on your time and tell him the same..You need to take care of those kids and you..He made his bed let him lay there for a while...If you need support get ahold of me...
2006-08-05 13:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by aimlynsmi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know from experience, but I've heard that inmates have to make collect calls. Are you accepting the charges? Does that make sense to you? You seriously need counseling. Talk to a victim's advocate to help arrange it.
2006-08-05 16:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by horsinround2do 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋