2006-08-05 12:18:35 · 15 answers · asked by lukkyone11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe his underwear or his cologne. As far as cheating, Not likely.
2006-08-05 12:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have yet to figure that one out too. I hope that he can change but i cant trust him. i dont know if i will ever feel the same obout him. Ive always heard once a cheater always a cheater. i cheated on my husband when we were dateing and i havent done it since. but he cheated an we were married and he says it is the same thing and i disagree. he broke vows i didnt. But yeah. hun i wish you all the luck and hope you find your answer the happy way. good luck
2006-08-05 12:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the circumstances. If he did it once and felt really guilty and told you about it, and if you went to counselling together and didn't forgive him right away without making him sweat for a while, then I think he can definately change. But if anyone (man or woman) does it repeatedly and continually gets forgiven and pays no consequences, then the only thing that will change them is death or illness or something that makes them unlikely to be able to have s#x.
2006-08-05 13:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by stripedbook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, it will just create more problems like jealousy, abuse or even watching every move he makes in the future. Don't even bother with that if he is doing it right now, it means that he is either bored or he is not giving the right excitement or attention. Sometimes that happens when one spouse gets to comfortable, that is why you must spike it up or more like spike him up, do different stuff that he would be doing with the other women. If things arent' good at all leave kids or no kids.
2006-08-05 12:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can change if they want to. Not sure if I've ever met a cheating man who wanted to change though, despite what he told his wife.
2006-08-05 12:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very small chance but there could be a chance that he will not cheat again. Are you going to ever be able to trust him again? Go to marriage councelling and try it that way it would be worth the effort. Good luck
2006-08-05 12:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's a sex addict. I was with one. I tried to be PERFECT and he just kept cheating. Years later i realized it wasn't about me it was about him needing the "fix" he got from having sex with all these other women. i am so glad I left before I got aids. My life is so much less stressful. But I haven't had many successful relationships because I tend to be attracted to other sex addicts because when you are in their center of attention it feels sooooo darn good. So I am addicted to them too!
2006-08-05 12:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not without something BIG happened in life.. he would realize he is so wrong when he encounter health or other problems he made from cheating... then found that you are the only one by his side, take care of him and support him..
2006-08-05 13:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not without counseling. If he doesn't have a grasp on the whole monogamous thing - he isn't likely to suddenly see the light.
2006-08-05 12:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT. Once he cheats and you let him get away with it - he will always cheat.
2006-08-05 16:13:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋