My boyfriend has a friend guy.who has a god child.The god child of his friend is a 21 year old female.anyway the friend guy stop by and ask my boyfriend if he would help move his god child.my boyfriend alway wake me up when he leave the houses to let me know that he is gone. but today he didn't.and i was told that the girl pick him up.tell me what you think please.
2006-08-05 12:15:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are feeling insecure. Of course you are. Why wouldn't he wake you up? It is a reason to feel strange. Was he afraid that if you was standing in the window watching her pick him up - you'd get sucpicious? Maybe. His intention could be to act considerate too, he'd let you sleep - have a nice morning?
I wouldnt worry yet though. It might have been thoughtless or considerate of him not to wake you, but your suspicion and worrying will probably hurt you more than you want. This is only once remember. If you really are worried, you should use your energy at this stage to make your home a nice place to be. Lovely dinners, romantic settings, having sex regularily - make sure your relationship is doing fine. One reason for adultery is the thought of having a not-well-functioning relationship. Talk and be friendly.
You are alert though. You will continue to notice his behaviour. If it changes after this - radically. He comes home late, he continues not to wake you, he works late, he is preoccupied, on the phone often and for longer than usual, giving weird exuses - then you can start to worry for real.
I hope he is not a cheater though. I hope he treats you good:) Good luck and best wishes!
2006-08-06 04:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by Tones 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would think so but I have a very negative attitude and think the worst out of everything.
2006-08-05 12:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by Kookie M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋