I am 22 years old, a mother of two boys. I have been married 5 years. Before a year ago my husband and I were doing pretty good financially. I mean we were paying our bills, I was a stay at home mommy. I loved my house wife job, I was good at keeping a clean house, doing laundry, cooking, and pretty much taking care of my family to the best of my abilitly. It seems like in the past year my life has took a drastic turn. We have went into debt, can bearly afford enough groceries, can't pay our bills. My mother just recently moved in with us, because her and my father's relationship came to a horrible end after 30 years. My dad has now lost his mind, and wants to commit suicide. My family is a big ball of drama. I'm stuck in the middle. Oh yeah, and the closest girl friend Iv'e ever had died in a car crash. I have to leave my kids, I just got a job. I'm so afraid I will mess up at work, and look stupid. Like mess up on the little things. I have no confidence???? I feel I'm going to panic?
2006-08-05 12:07:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
man. your life sucks. J/K. You have to want to EXPECT life to get better, no matter what happens. If you EXPECT something to go from bad to worse, it will. So EXPECT life to beome what ever you want to EXPECT life to give you- A RAISE< SANITY
2006-08-05 12:15:48
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You are going through a lot right now sorry to hear that. You can boost your self asteem by helping them out as much as possible but also thinking of yourself. Money is not everything happiness comes first. Your Dad needs to seek some councelling you can confront him and tell him that you love him but he needs some help. Mom is going to be a burden on your family she needs to somehow get a place of her own unless she is helping you both financially. At times it feels like the world is caving in with all the problems people face all at once. Think of yourself and try to be the best person you can be for you and your family.
2006-08-05 19:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame you a bit for feeling panicked. You've had enough dumped on you for three or four soap operas, haven't you?
If you can, think about this. IF you do mess up on the job, there'll be another one. You just need to keep putting one foot in front of the other.
2006-08-05 19:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a good church, talk to the minister, and watch for MIRACLES to happen. God still loves you, very much! All He is wanting is for you to accept Him in your life. THIS IS WHEN YOU NEED HIM THE MOST. Don't miss out on God's help. All you need to do is ask for help in a prayer. He does not care how you are now, he loves you anyways. If you need more help on this matter, e-mail me. I'll be honored to help you seek the Lord. God is in control. Your life is out of control because you need His help. It's free!!!! All you need to do is ask. IT'S THAT SIMPLE! Trust in Him.
2006-08-05 19:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Tom D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down and do your best on the job. If you didn't lie on your application and in the interview, they will assign you duties that you can do. Just pay attention and work hard.
2006-08-05 19:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to remember to stay stronge and do it for your family don't worry about messing up there's always other jobs
2006-08-05 19:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋