my "best mate" hates me because i would rather spend time tih my girlfriend over him and he also thinks i treat him like **** cos i tell him to shut up when im on the phone to her, when its him who has cheep pops at me and lizzie and acts like a ****.
2006-08-05 11:50:28 · 11 answers · asked by ghosthunter_blade 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he has a g/f of his own (my g/f's sister) and i do spend time with him i spend like 2 -3 hours aday with him and i get about an hour with my girlfriend and maybe awhole night when she stays over on fridays
2006-08-05 11:59:26 · update #1
He's being immature and maybe he is jealous too. If he was any kind of a friend, he would respect you and be happy that you have a girlfriend and allow you to have that space.
You should also offer to spend some time with him as well since he is your best friend. You two should do something together sometimes as well or maybe even find a nice lady to set him up with and go on a double date on occasion. Include him in some of your activities.
2006-08-05 11:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just read your update! he does have a girl so why don't all 4 of you spend time together!
he is jealous because he wants you to himself.
tell him he's your bud!
tell him you need time with your girl the same as he needs time with his,
if he's a true mate he'll understand.
I've been mates with my best bud for 24 years now, sometimes we don't see each other for months but we keep in touch, go out once in a while, because our families come first but even when i don't see her she knows I'm thinking of her.
hope this helps x
2006-08-05 19:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by tuppassister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends have u guys been friends longer than your relationship with the girl??
Cause if u guys have been friends 4 a long time u might lose your friendship but being with your girl is still important .
Give your gf lots of love but also promise to shoot hoops or something with your friend when u dont have plans with your gf but if your gf already knows about your plans with your friend and she wants you to reshcedule break up with her
2006-08-05 18:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by wildtiger614 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's your friend I wouldn't tell him to shut up, no matter what. I don't even tell people I don't like to shut up, but that's just the way I was raised. He probably doesn't hate you; in fact he probably loves you...hahaha! No, not in the brokeback mount'in way, but as a friend and he hates to lose your attention..hehe
2006-08-05 18:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he doesn't have the right to hate you. he wants you to be around him 24/7 and that's not the way it should be. i wouldn't worry about it if I were you. as long as your girlfriend is pleased with the way you are treating her, then you should be happy.
2006-08-05 19:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by shady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is his problem do you think he is jealous? do you think he has a crush on your girlfriend? or has he a crush on you? or does he just need to grow up????????? sorry but he needs to know you need to have your life surely he must be after having alone time with his girlfriend? confront him ask him outright what his problem is as it is making you get really pissed off!!! good luck x
2006-08-05 19:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he hates you...i think he is just jealous...because you are his friend and he'd like to spend more time with you
believe me:nothing is more important than friendship
ofcourse you will spend time with your girlfriend
but take it as an advice:
dont lose your friend....because you will regret it at the end
2006-08-05 21:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by Herbicide 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to give you some space and respect that you want to treat your girlfriend well.
2006-08-05 18:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes jealous of her because he thinks that you are gonna forget about him and jus be with her all the time also he is being immature your friend needs to grow up a little bit also.thats my advice.
2006-08-05 19:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will get over it, be friends and just keep up the relationship.
2006-08-05 19:05:24 · answer #10 · answered by skyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋