2006-08-05 11:45:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
By "boyfriends" I expect you mean friends and acquaintances who are boys rather than anyone steady. Don't let your shyness worry you. You'll get over it in time. Remember that many boys, for all their brashness, are just as shy about you as you are about them.
Going dancing (culture and family permitting) is an excellent way of getting to meet more boys, and a provides a good opportunity to break the ice with someone whose personality you feel matches yours.
But be careful, don't fall in with the wrong crowd.
Good luck.
2006-08-05 13:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the exact same problem! but the catch here is that Ive never actually had a boyfriend. I just act very shy and dont talk to guys i do like and i tend to avoid them when they like me too. i always mess it up with my shyness but i guess u are doing good because u actually got a guy lol Well I think u should just be yourself. I know its cliched but just dont be shy! Its th worst thing u could do. Just act like hes just another one of your friends, cuz in reality he is. Just tell him how u feel and he will understand. Just try it and u see things will get better! good luck :)
2006-08-05 19:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by deanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How were you able to get boyfriends by being so shy?
The only thing I can figure is that you must be really hot!
2006-08-05 19:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're worried about being what THEY want, and that's a mistake. You want a boyfriend who likes you as you are, so just be yourself.
Someday you'll get married. Can you imagine the strain of pretending to be someone you're not your entire life? You'd be miserable!
2006-08-05 18:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jay S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are shy around your bf(s) then maybe you should rethink your relationship with him/them. Being in a relationship should be comfortable, easy, and relaxing. Sometimes it's easier to be friends first.
2006-08-05 19:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sometimes have the same problem i just try to say whatevers on my mind even though most the time im thinking what am i going to say next
so like if you see something intersting just point it out or complement him like "i like your shirt" or i like ur shoes somethign completely random u cna also ask to see his cell phone and when i dont have anythign to say i just giggle and flirt
2006-08-05 18:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by bionca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant talk to guys either...try hanging out with your girl friends and boy friends together
2006-08-05 19:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by purple-pens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i know it weird but act like really preppy that will get u through
2006-08-05 18:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by brown eyed girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say whatever comes to your mind , that's how I got over it. No matter how dumb you think it sounds , just say it. Even if you accidentally insult someone , sorry works .
2006-08-05 18:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait . . . you have more than one boyfriend?!
anyway, find some common subject to talk about, like school or something.
2006-08-05 18:50:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋