Fantasizing about my older sister is this wrong, i have sexual fantasies about my sister, i have been doing this for a long time now, so i was wondering if this is normal or should i seek some help?
2006-08-05 11:33:39 · 19 answers · asked by . 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It is neither wrong nor right, it just is. Now, the question is... are you OK with having your MIND convert strong emotional attraction into sexual ideation? You obviously have strong emotional attraction to your sister, and this can be from this life alone, or it could come from you having a more intimate relationship with her in a past life. In either case, the strong attraction is good, and quite healthy, the only fly in the soup is your own fear of intimacy. Your MIND's fear of being loving in a brotherly way, perhaps as even being seen as soft, is causing your MIND to misinterpret your natural emotions into thoughts of sexuality... I would not suggest you seek help, unless you know precisely the non-conscious hangups of anyone you might use as a counselor.
I've known counselors who, in reading what you posted here, would seek to have you locked up as a sex offender. Intense fear, anxiety, and ignorance are not the exclusive domain of lay people you know, and if you did not know this.... then it's something you might consider strongly.
Just work on digesting your own emotional excitement [which is inside of you] and converting it into joy, laughter, and a special kindliness toward your sister. Let go of the low-level activity of the MIND. Peace
2006-08-05 12:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by docjp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am not being judgemental but i gotta get it out of my system "eewwww". Ok i can begin telling you whats up.... If by sister you mean step sister i would say its sorta iight but unhealthy, if by blood you should defiently stop, its not only unhealthy but sick. Look at it this way, do you wanna have a child for ur sister, or marry her? "No" so then dont, its really wrong, Talk to your therapist, it could be something sexual from when you were younger which got mixed up with ur feelings for ur sister so i wont see it as nothing wrong but thats only if you try and get help. If you dont and continue to fantasize about it than its wrong.
Is she older or younger anyway?
2006-08-05 11:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by ChanteC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not totally wrong I mean about fantasizing but about your sister might be, you should get some help and soon if this has gone on for a while.
2006-08-05 11:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by meli_e2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything in fantasy is normal. It is when you act on it you start to have problems. I have a cousin that I had fantasies about until she got married. Some event will stop it; if not and it bothers you seek consoling.
2006-08-05 12:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by sickcured? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all are ua boy or girl ? and fantasizing is ok but sexaul Fantasizing isn't , you may ( no afense ) want to talk to someone .
2006-08-05 11:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...that's a bit wrong, she's your sister, but hey, back in the day siblings got married, so what ever, but yes you may want to get help!
2006-08-05 11:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abnormal. Seek help.
2006-08-05 11:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by Simplystunning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok, I fantasize about your sister all the time too.
2006-08-05 11:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is kinda normal, but you should seek some help just in case
2006-08-05 11:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's kinda normal but can't you just think about her best friend instead. That would be a little more normal and definitely more obtainable:-)
2006-08-05 11:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋