why is it when a couple breaks up one of them tend to be more on the agressive side and make matters worse? why does that person insist that that is going to work when you both know the realtionship is NOT going anywhere and that same person makes matter worse like breaking your things, damaging your vehicle, stalking , the non-stop phone calls the same goes for if you see the same person month or even years later why doesnt the annomosity STOP.....is this a way of getting attention i dont get it
2006-08-05 11:27:00 · 8 answers · asked by L3ZBiiAN SW33TZ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i am a lesbian and i do study women before i get with them then years down the road the act physcotic and thats something i dont deal with and thats when i have to let go...
2006-08-05 11:51:48 · update #1
One reason may be denial. They may not think anything is wrong or does not want to think that they could be the one to blame. They may be afraid to be alone. The idea of starting over scares them, so they deny that theres problems in the relationship. They are immature so, they don't know how to deal. they want the attention, good or bad, they want attention from you. That may be the only way they know how to get it.
2006-08-05 11:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make sure NOT to start a relationship with a crazy person in the first place. It might just be the kind of men you're attracted to are immature.
2006-08-05 18:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They didn't want it to be over they think it is the others fault and some how they have to make the other understand how they feel. They just don't go about it the right way.
2006-08-05 18:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a good way to have a restraining order issued against you. if you broke up with someone who's doing these things, then it's time to call the cops, before you really get hurt.
2006-08-05 18:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are times and issues some people cant handle and have a difficult time in expressing how they feel so they are mean and violent . stay away . the person is not worth it .
2006-08-05 18:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one word rejection not grown up lonely yes def lonely
2006-08-05 18:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by wonder woman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe that person feels more hurt than the other person.....maybe that person didn't expect a brake up.....
2006-08-05 18:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by .:Yafi:. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instigators..
2006-08-05 18:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by billy_blunt_smoker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋