It's your BIRTHDAY and your friend(that you consider to be family) almost 25yrs, not only make you LATE for a CONCERT that was given on your BIRTHDAY, But also expects you to PAY FOR THEIR DINNER on your birthday and steal you g*d d*mn PARTY FAVORS !!!!
WHAT WOULD YOU DO ?????
2006-08-05 11:21:48 · 13 answers · asked by belledejourdenoir 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, Happy Birthday!! Second, most things aren't all that they seem... perhaps your friend is having money problems, or family problems, or simply hasn't been raised in a loving environment and taught to have good manners. So, basically you need to decide whether this is a good person that you want in your life ( in which case are the party favours important or you helping a good friend through tough times?).... or is this recouring behavour from a thoughtless individual? If it is the latter... get this toxic person out of your life for good. Just walk away... toxic people don't care to change.If he is a good person, then you should also be a good person and show him the love and support that clearly is lacking in the rest of his life.
2006-08-05 11:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by Moonshimmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did they forget it was your birthday???? Ask them if it's normal in their family to have the Birthday girl/boy pay for a friend on their birthday. And, let them know you are ticked off.
2006-08-05 18:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by kukkeeme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel very sorry for you. They don't seem to be a very caring 'friend' I think when you have calmed down say something to that person just to let them know how hurt you feel/felt, that it was your birthday & their actions were not acceptable. Good luck & ***Happy Birthday***
2006-08-05 18:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by murphy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW...it sounds as if somebody has angled themselves for an A-1 cussin' out!
It's a tough job, but somebody has got to do it!
So...let loose with everything in you and end this sham of a friendship...TODAY!
2006-08-05 18:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the day the best you can, and tell your friend... hey your birthday is coming up.... its pay back time...lol
2006-08-05 18:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by twinkies_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? your crying over party favors? if you two were friends that long, tell this person to pay for your effin' dinner.
2006-08-05 18:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how you feel and give your honest opinion. You have nothing to lose because it doesn't sound like they haven't been a good friend anyway.
2006-08-05 18:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have a beer and relax...not everyones perfect. happy birthday!
2006-08-05 18:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by vanilla_chinchilla36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That person would not be my friend any longer, being rude and crude is pitiful and inexcusable .
2006-08-05 18:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sound like you need a new class of friends for you b-day.
2006-08-05 18:26:44 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋