my best friend (also more complicated then that) told me she didn't want to talk to me and went to take a nap, she told me not to text her, she'd contact me when she wanted to. That was at 10:30, it's 5 o clock now, dare I think she won't talk to me anymore today? I just want to talk to her, cause.. I don't know, I just do.
2006-08-05 11:08:59 · 22 answers · asked by Trey123 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give her space. If she's truely your friend, she'll contact you.
2006-08-05 11:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you even know this girl? Have you ever talked to her in person? Have you ever even met her? Have you gone out? If not, then this is a huge waste of time and you should go find a girlfriend in the real world, not online.
P.S. If she hasnt contacted you yet, it's because she doesn't want to talk. You dont have to be a genius to figure that out.
2006-08-05 18:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't contact her. NO. NO WAY!! Go to the movies instead. Go by yourself if you can't find anyone else. That is ok. Then when she contacts you, you can talk about the movie!! Wait, she will be wondering who you went with. Don't volunteer that you went alone. Evade the question. Make her wonder. It'll drive her nuts! Be a little mysterious!
2006-08-05 18:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. You're putting your own desires ahead of hers if you contact her first and that's not a good message to send her. Apparently she needs time to think about whatever's bothering her before she gets in contact with you again.
2006-08-05 18:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by Hidden .38 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way 2 keep your friend ship is 2 talk 2 her. go 2 her house and tell her ur afraid something is getting in the way of ur friend ship then find out whats wrong.
2006-08-05 18:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by hotsause 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space. She will respect you in the long run. She said she would contact you when she wanted to... she's being honest with you. Don't cross the line with her. Respect her wishes.
2006-08-05 18:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need simplicity.... what I mean is: define your relationship. How? Go for it...... if she says no, move on. I know thats hard but good luck!
P.S. there are plenty of fish in the sea, clique and true!!
2006-08-05 18:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by Ken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to get a life. It's obvious that if she cared as much as you do, then you'd hear from her! Time to move on friend!
2006-08-05 18:13:29 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tis a puzzlement!
sounds like she's your best friend(and so much more), but you're not hers(and so much less)
she's prob trying tosend you that message, just chill off, otherwise she might start avoiding you, then you won't have a friend anymore!
iow:don't call
2006-08-05 18:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by Echo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said "DON'T" so DONT. Maybe she needs the sleep, or has a problem, or something else is happening. She said she will contact you. So wait for her.
2006-08-05 18:13:33 · answer #10 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might wait until later. definately call her today because if you call her tomorrow she will think that you didnt really want to talk to her. when you call her just be comforting and unserstanding. dont pressure her to tell you what that was about yet.
2006-08-05 18:13:01 · answer #11 · answered by flirtatiousrocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋