how young were you and tell me the story?
2006-08-05 11:08:26 · 38 answers · asked by lady heather 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
When I was 14, I would go into the girl's locker to steal peeks at other girls. I use to watch an older girl sunbathing. I imagined easing my hand under her bikini and stroking her smooth skin.
2006-08-10 05:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sasha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had to be about 6 or 7, and I had a "girlfriend". She was my best friend from downstairs. We went to school together and everything. I remember not knowing what I was doing then, but when I got into high school and my mom told me I was supposed to like boys, not girls, and I tried to suppress my feelings. Found out that doesn't work forever.
I tried lying to myself, telling myself that when I looked at other girls' bodies I was just appreciating the beauty (in a way it WAS true, I sometimes paint erotica art and stuff) but that it was no mroe than that. It got to a point that I was writing in my journal at least twice a day that I wasn't gay. It was insane.
I had my first lesbian relationship when I was in high school, but I was such a asshole about keeping everything a secret-long story short, I messed up what could have been a good thing. She's long gone now, but we still talk sometimes, over email and stuff.
2006-08-05 11:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by Agent Double EL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know for sure it was a gay thought. As children we would play doctor. Well there were more boys on the block than girls. I guess this was 6 or 8 years old. The older I got the stranger things I saw. In boyscouts there was a boy who streaked and the people took pictures.
2006-08-05 11:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by thebulktiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I was abt 5 or 6 y.o. and my girl friend (or playmate) used to invite me in the bathroom to kiss. No tongues tho' but just kissing and hugging. I still remember it vividly and we probably did it a few times plus we had these sleep overs and taking baths together and we still did the kissing and hugging during that period. Then when I was 9 y.o., I had my first major crush - on a girl in school who was a year older, and it just developed from that time on. I've had so many crushes on girls in elementary and high school, I've lost count. Even my teacher... now I have this crush at work but that's another story. Heheh. ;o)
2006-08-05 18:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by mags 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thought came when I was 9 and there was this big beautiful blonde girl of 14 whom I desperately wanted to hug/kiss. Strangely, after about 5 years we got into a situation to go all the way, which we both enjoyed very much and still do sometimes.
2006-08-11 21:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by shakira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, me and like every other kid played doctor or house often as a child. The boys would always be the father, and the girls the mother. But sometimes there were no boys around, and the girls would take turns alternating playing mother and father. It was duing these times that I realized I like playing house better with the girls, but didn't discover it until many years later.
2006-08-07 13:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by indrep33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 years old, back of my mom's car. My friend from down the street and I were going somewhere with my mom and she left us in the car for a minute to run in a store and get something. She and I crouched down in the back seat and she asked me if I wanted to "taste each other's tongues." So we did... for quite some time until we had the feeling my mom was coming back and we stopped. I guess you could say that was my first lesbian kiss and I've loved women ever since.
2006-08-05 13:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jylsamynne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a lot of crushes on girls throughout school, but I would always tell myself I just admired them or looked up to them or something. I was 15 when i finally started admitting to myself I was bi, so it's kinda hard to pinpoint the first thought I had. Although I do remember calling another girl cute when I was in 2nd grade.
2006-08-05 11:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Heather,
When I was in the second grade... either 7 or 8 years old. There was 4 of us boys that lived in the same neighborhood. Happy Days was a big hit on the TV. We used to take turns being Fonzie and the rest were his "chicks". Ironically enough, we sat in a big walk-in closet and took turns kissing "Fonzie". We did not know what sex was, so it was only kissing... I know you all will crack up at reading this, but it's all true.... Thanks for asking....
2006-08-11 17:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by taterliquor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fourth grade, I used to stay after school at this program and I remember being attracted to the teacher there. It wasn't even a sexual thing at first, I was just drawn to her. But I remember as time went by I started thinking she was kind of hot and wondering what she looked like naked.
2006-08-05 13:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by holidayspice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I realized I was having lesbian thoughts until high school. I had these 2 super sexy friends that were sisters. Now that I think back, I really did have a huge crush on one of them. She looked like Marina from the L word...:-P
2006-08-05 11:44:27 · answer #11 · answered by aueuil1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋