LONG STORY:
So I'm 12 yrs old, first off, ok?
I have this friend who drinks, and her 15 yr old sister's a full-on drinker. I DO NOT DRINK. So I told my friend that I can't be around people who break the law (Drugs, Achohol, Sex, etc.) then she flips out and starts crying and her sister calls me claiming that "Sydney doesn't drink, only I do, our mom let her sip a shot of Smirnoff once." So I caved in and forgave her, but I'm so sad because I'm weak like that. She really isn't a good friend, if you read some of my other questions, they mention her. If you've heard the song "Torn" by, LeToya, it's like that. Once I get my foot out the door, She finds a way to pull me back in. I'm sick of it! I'm crying right now, hating myself for being so weak. What should I do? Please, at least tell me how to get rid of her!! Thanks.
P.S. We've been friends for about 3-4 yrs.
2006-08-05 10:24:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you just have to be strong and say to her that you can not be friends with her ..tell her how miserable she makes you and don't talk to her sister...you just have to stand up to her..hold your head high and look her in the eye and say "i do not want to be friends any more".then walk away and don't look back....you will feel much better after you do this ... you are very smart to stay away from drugs and sex and alcohol..keep those beliefs strong and close to your heart...good luck and god bless
2006-08-05 10:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by va8326 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off toughen up chica!!!! her mom is a disgrace and she needs help ur friend her sister and her mom. anywayz tell her if she don't stop this habit she's gotten that u ain't gonna be friends with her. then completely cut her off her of ur life don't talk to her or acknowledge her in any way. that's the best advice i can give you. i'm fifteen too. Let me know how it turns out. babypenguin_05@yahoo.com
2006-08-05 17:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by loveyou:]<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's makin u tat miserable. u need 2 tell her. if she's a tru friend she'll stop because its killin u on the inside. u cant be pushed around by ppl. i wuz, but then i finally told her 2 back off. i didnt need tat kind of influence in my life. now's she gone n i coulnt be happier.
hope i helped.
2006-08-05 17:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should do something that u really enjoy and then u will get ur mind off of her then take a trip 2 somewhere beautifully and then find another friend that u think will be a good friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-05 18:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by cheerchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋