2006-08-05 10:22:24 · 27 answers · asked by VON 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't give it another thought. If that doesn't work, think about you being married to someone you love dearly and some Bimbo from his job stealing him from you. That would kind of make you mad, right!? So, do the right thing and treat people the way you would have them treat you. Work out whatever problems you are having with your husband, if you can. If everyone would utilize this simple, yet effective thought process, there wouldn't be so many laws, Al-Quada, Nazi's, KKK, PLO, BGF, NOI, Hezbollah, problems, etc........Is it starting to make sense to you now!? Glad I could help!
2006-08-05 10:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you are kidding, right? I hope you have not been messing around with this guy...two strikes! He IS married, and you WORK WITH HIM! What part of MARRIED to you not understand....oh, I see...His wife doesn't understand him, his wife is frigid, his wife is no good, his wife is............. does it really matter, the key word here is WIFE. He has NOT left her, he is NOT GOING to leave her, and he is a liar...PERIOD. HE will treat any and all women the same as he treats his wife..with no respect to marriage, and no respect to those who are foolish enough to fall for his BS. Wise up, girl! Where were you raised? In a barn? Sorry to be so harsh, but you have been playing the fool, and it is time someone told you the plain truth. I have done just that. Oh, and please do NOT think you are an exception in the great world..that you have found your true love...you have found someone elses true love. What should you do? You ask, so I will tell you the plain, ugly truth. Quite your job and find another one. Get as far away from this loser as you can, for that is exactly what he is. IF YOU DO NOT, in a short time, you will be writing here asking, "What should I do..my true love has left me for another, my true love is cheating on me, my true love is.......... you name it, he will do it to you, just as he has done it to his wife. Count your blessings that someone, in fact, probably everyone here, is telling you the ugly truth. You are playing with fire and you are going to be burned very badly.
2006-08-05 17:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop at once! You are holding a can of gas and walking around a bonfire. Just asking for touble.
I have been the guy on the recieving end of an unfaithful wife. Now she is pregnant. You do the math. Solve your problems with your husband and either fix them first, or get a divorce. While you are single, then you have the right to play. Wait until then.
2006-08-05 17:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married people get into ruts every now and then. The newness is gone, and sex at home may not be that great, so guys play around. You are likely his chosen toy, tell yourself that you deserve better. Why be a married man's side dish when you can be the main entree with someone else?
2006-08-05 17:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by perfectprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he gets near, run the other way. YOu used to feel that way about your husband, and are just looking for that feeling again, but you really want to feel that way about your husband. Don't you know that the man you THINK you love at work leaves his dirty clothes laying around, and leaves a streak in his underwear too? What I am saying is that the newness of him will wear off one day, too, and then you will just "fall in love" with someone else. Marriages are work, and they are a promise to love and be faithful. Have you forgotten your vows? Break them, and you destroy a lot of people, AND YOU WILL BE SORRY ONE DAY.
2006-08-05 18:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is such a powerful word. how can you say that when you are still married to another. you probably like the thought of it. if you ask you are definately asking for trouble. work it out. how will this affect the family. dont be so selfish. go to counseling and see how you can bring back the love into your marriage. think of what made you fall in love with your husband in the first place. look for another job. it is not fair to your family. would you like it if your husband did that to you?
2006-08-05 17:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by Caligurll28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE WITH HIM, YOU JUST THINK YOU ARE.
YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH THE IDEA OF DISTRACTING A MARRIED GUY'S ATTENTION FROM HIS WIFE.
YOU ARE DISSATISFIED IN YOUR OWN MARRIAGE BECAUSE YOUR HUSBAND DOES NOT VALIDATE YOUR NEEDS.
YOU NEED THE EGO BOOST SEDUCEING THIS MARRIED GUY GIVES YOU.
YOU HAVE SELF ESTEEM ISSUES. DON'T GO THERE OR YOU WILL HATE YOURSELF.
YOU WILL FEEL ALL GOOD AND VALIDATED AT THE MOMENT, BUT EVENTUALLY YOUR LACK OF COURAGE, RESPECT AND INTEGRITY WILL CAUSE YOU SHAME.
TURN TOWARD YOUR CHOSEN LIFE PARTNER TO GET WHAT YOU NEED, NEVER AWAY FROM HIM.
iF YOU CAN'T GET WHAT YOU NEED FROM YOUR HUSBAND, IT DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO TAKE IT FROM SOME OTHER WOMAN.
THE WAY PEOPLE TREAT OTHERS IS A REFLECTION OF HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT THEMSELVES....YOU ARE TRANSPARENT.
WORK RELATIONSHIPS ARE BOTH UNETHICAL AND A BAD IDEA, AND SOMEONE ALWAYS LOSES.
DON'T BE A LOSER! FACE YOUR PROBLEMS AT HOME.
HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF THE TABLES WERE TURNED? HOW CAN YOU RESPECT A GUY WHO WOULD CHEAT ON HIS WIFE?
iF HE WANTED YOU HE WOULD DIVORCE HIS WIFE AND MAKE HIMSELF AVAILABLE TO YOU, ANS EXPECT YOU TO DO THE SAME FOR HIM.
YOU ARE JUST TRYING TO MAKE HIM LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO SELF ESTEEM.
2006-08-05 17:49:00 · answer #7 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the ultimate question is why are you looking for someone other than your husband. Are there problems in your marriage that you need to sort out before you move onto someone else. Ask yourself would you appreciate it if your husband cheated on you? If your marriage is no longer, break it off amicably, and if you have children you need to sort those issues out first. Once everything is resolved with both your marriages, then perhaps you should consider being with him. Or perhaps you need to speak with this person to find out if this is a one night stand or if you really want to be with this person, and in turn he wants to be with you.
2006-08-05 17:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by Gilligan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not in love w/ your current husband, you need to work that out first. If you don't know for sure how the other guy feels about you, don't go ruin he marriage, cuz for all you know he could just be nice not in love w/ you.
2006-08-05 17:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by One Love <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer. Don't be stupid. Watch the movie Fatal Attraction. Do you really want to be the crazy b*tch who messes up peoples lives? I would also hope that you think you deserve better, Because if you play that game, you will lose.
2006-08-05 17:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by kw11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋