What age is the best to lose your virginity?
2006-08-05 09:58:44 · 13 answers · asked by Juleeza AKA JAY_JAY 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Good question. There really is no set in stone age for you to have sex. The true answer is: when you're ready. Now, keep in mind, this doesn't just mean ready physically, but also mentally and spiritually. The person above me mentioned that it would be best to wait until you are married. That is the ideal time for some, but others (such as myself) choose not to wait as long. That is really dependent upon the moral values that have been instilled in you. Many people have sex before marriage, while there are still others that choose to wait. That's a part of being spiritually ready. If putting off sex until you are married is one of your original beliefs, you shouldn't compromise that for anyone, and if they truly love you, they will respect your decision and wait with you. If not, they were not worth the price of your virginity anyway. If you don't feel it is necessary to wait until you're married to start having sex, that's fine, as long as it is a decision that you feel comfortable with.
2006-08-05 10:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by eliselarnold@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would love to say when you are married; but sometimes it doesn't work out that way. The best age I can suggest is 21. By this time you should be out of your parents house and able to make your own decisions, and live with the consequences of your actions.
Now for my soapbox preaching....
Your virginity is something that you should cherish. When your young, you think of it as a hindrance; but trust me, it's not. There are times that I wish I'd waited until later to loose mine; but oh well.
I've found out the hard way that a man wants to have sex with a loose woman; but wants to marry someone who hasn't been around the block a few times. Think about it; would you want a man who's put his equipment in everything that has a pair of breasts?
2006-08-05 19:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on the person it's really best if you wait until you marry, because it's much safer that way. There are so many diseases in the world today and it's too much of a risk. There was a chart at my gynecologist that had the number of sex partners your with, and what it's really like being with. For example if you have sex with 12 guys, it's really like having sex with 4,000 people. It's kind of a chain reaction thing.You never really know how many sex partners a person has. But if you can't wait until marriage at least wait until you are ready, not when someone pressures you into it.
2006-08-05 17:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by minnie_mickey07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
25
2006-08-05 17:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are married. Having sex with your husband after you have already been around the block a few times is like re-gifting a Christmas present!
2006-08-05 17:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by ashlibby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u cant wait til marriage, which most of us dont, make sure u are atleast 18 and know what u are doing and with a guy that isnt going to just use u hun
2006-08-05 17:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After your married. That is something special between a man and woman and you'll want to be able to give yourself to your husband that first time. It's not old fashioned~ it's truth.
2006-08-05 17:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you are old enough to handle anything that comes from it--like a baby.
2006-08-05 18:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 and when you are finish high school
2006-08-05 23:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the end of live
99 or older
haha ...
just funny
2006-08-05 17:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by lockheed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋