And eventually ask me out
2006-08-05 09:41:28 · 6 answers · asked by miss_ting16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yeah it's not worth the wait. i mean what if you wait and wait and wait and then he still never asks you out, how much time will you have wasted? I'd just move on and find a guy that reciprocates feelings. if he doesn't like you like that i don't think there's much you can do to change his mind.
2006-08-05 09:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by chariot804 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, here's the "Tried and True" three-step method:
1. Convince yourself that this guy is it. He is all you need or want, so you'll do anything to please him.
2. Since he doesn't like you, then the obvious thing to do is change. Change everything about yourself: your hair, your behavior, your interests, your favorite pizza topping, the way you brush your teeth. Change everything so that it matches what he wants and likes, since that is what you want: him.
3. Be with him. You're done; you're his.
...notice I said "his." That's right, since you are no longer you, not living your own life and fulfilling your own hopes and desires, you are of course existing purly as his plaything.
"Yeah, but he asked me out, so that means he likes me" you say. No, he still doesn't like you; he likes what you turned into, which censequently may not be what your current friends and loved ones like.
Besides, even if you do work him over to show affection, then I believe you still would not be happy: your self-esteem will be shot because you had to convince him. That's not even mentioning the confidence you would have in him *staying* with you since, after all, it wasn't natural.
Live for yourself. When you know what it means for you in doing so, then find someone who compliments you and your lifestyle, and for whom you, as in this case, compliment as well.
2006-08-05 10:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by Wes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this saaaaaaaaame problem. Just MOVE ON. In the end, he's going to end up disliking you. In a way, girls that try to get guys to like them back are really just scaring them away. REALITY---You can't MAKE somebody like you. Just talk to him, get more in-depth w/ him and maybe he'll grow fond of you.
2006-08-05 09:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by Giggles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might have a reason so look some where else
so he dont not take u for granted
i hope there are men looking for some one like u
al the best
2006-08-05 09:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by maku d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chemistry clicks or it doesn't. You can't make someone like you, and if the electricity isn't there for one of you, you can't make that happen either.
2006-08-05 09:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...walk around naked?
2006-08-05 09:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋